Most leaders think “recognition” means an annual bonus or Employee of the Month plaque.
The founders and CEOs in this HR Spotlight roundup disagree—loudly.
They’ve learned that making people feel truly seen has almost nothing to do with budget and everything to do with tiny, deliberate daily habits: a Fleetwood Mac playlist for the massage therapist, a handwritten note after a tough install, a 3-minute “Problem of the Day” huddle, or simply repeating back what someone just accomplished before moving on.
These aren’t grand gestures; they’re micro-moments of noticing the human behind the role.
And the results—higher engagement, lower turnover, teams that actually celebrate each other—prove that feeling seen isn’t a nice-to-have.
It’s the new competitive advantage. Here are the exact rituals and gestures that actually work.
Read on!
Damien Zouaoui
Co-Founder, Oakwell Beer Spa
The team began creating customized Spotify playlists for each member as a basic initiative.
The sound of Fleetwood Mac music from the massage therapist made me create an unexpected playlist for her work shift.
She became delighted when she listened to the music.
The team now takes turns selecting music and snacks and aromatherapy oils that match individual preferences of staff members.
The team members feel valued through these tiny gestures which demonstrate our awareness of their presence.
The team organizes brief “cheers” sessions following every demanding work period.
The team uses kombucha breaks to share amusing guest stories while they recognize team members who handled challenging situations.
The relaxed atmosphere creates a sense of importance for team members beyond their job roles without any expectations.
The brief time spent together brings significant value to the team.
Fleetwood Mac Fixed Morale
Ben Southall
Co-Founder, Talked
The most effective practices are often the simplest and most consistent.
Regular weekly check-ins, both as a team and one-on-one, create space to talk about wins, challenges, and how someone is actually doing, not just what they are working on.
Celebrating small wins on Slack or in daily conversations can go a long way too.
Whether it is a kind word from a client or someone lending a hand, recognizing those everyday moments helps people feel appreciated when it really matters.
Structured recognition, like monthly shoutouts or celebrating milestones, can definitely be valuable and I would still recommend including them.
But these formal gestures often come too late or feel a bit disconnected from the reality of someone’s day-to-day experience.
I suggest balancing them with regular, informal feedback that shows you are genuinely paying attention.
Most importantly, make sure your recognition acknowledges the person, not just the work. Show that you see them as a whole person with a life outside of their role.
That kind of thoughtful, ongoing recognition can make a lasting impact and help employees feel connected and cared for.
Small Wins Beat Annual Awards
Seema Thakkar
President, Vogue Window Fashion
I’ve also found that regular, informal feedback works better than infrequent formal reviews.
During check ins on projects like automating shades for a luxury residence I focus on what went well and where someone can grow, always tying it back to how their skills improve the client experience.
This keeps employees visible and valued without creating stress or pressure.
Even small gestures make a big difference.
Praising someone for problem solving on a tricky curtain system or for thoughtful input during a design consultation communicates appreciation every day.
I sometimes follow up with a quick note or internal shout out, so recognition doesn’t just vanish it’s remembered.
Linking recognition to real client outcomes is also powerful.
Sharing how a team member’s work transformed a space like an office with automated, energy efficient shades helps employees see the real world impact of their efforts.
It makes their daily work feel meaningful in a tangible way.
Lastly, encouraging peer to peer recognition strengthens the culture.
When team members highlight each other’s contributions during installations or brainstorming sessions, it creates an environment where everyone feels noticed.
Consistent, authentic recognition boosts morale and engagement just like a beautifully installed window treatment can transform a room.
Praise the Install, Not the Invoice
Illustrious Espiritu
Marketing Director, Autostar Heavy Duty
For a long time, our recognition practices were a top-down approach.
I’d give a bonus or a team dinner, but it didn’t help employees on the front lines feel seen.
They were just a cog in a machine. We knew we had to find a way to build a positive culture.
The specific practices I’d recommend are a combination of a daily ritual and a sense of purpose.
The daily ritual is a “Problem of the Day” huddle.
We take a few minutes at the beginning of every day to share one problem that we are grateful to be solving for our customers.
This gives the team a sense of purpose beyond a paycheck.
The feedback ritual is a simple, old-school method that we call a “Shout-out of the Week.” Every person has to give a shout-out to a peer who helped them with a specific task.
This empowers every person on the team to recognize a peer. The daily gesture is to ask, “How can I help you?”
I learned that a person who feels seen is a person who is a partner.
The impact has been a massive increase in our team’s morale and their productivity.
Our team is no longer just a collection of people with a task. They are a collection of problem-solvers.
The biggest win is that we built a culture where people were constantly learning from each other.
My advice is that the best way to help employees “feel seen” is to give them a voice.
Daily Problems, Daily Purpose
Patrick Ono
Insurance Expert, Patrick Ono Agency
Helping employees feel truly seen starts with noticing the little things.
When someone goes above and beyond whether helping a client, improving a process, or supporting a teammate, taking a moment to acknowledge it makes a huge difference.
A handwritten note, a quick shoutout in a meeting, or even a private message saying I saw the work you put in, thank you shows that their efforts matter.
Regular check-ins are also key.
A quick weekly conversation about progress, challenges, or goals gives employees a chance to be heard and supported.
Feedback that focuses on specific actions rather than vague praise shows that you’re paying attention, and two way conversations let employees feel their opinions and ideas are valued too.
Small day to day gestures really add up.
Remembering birthdays or work anniversaries, celebrating personal wins, or even treating someone to coffee for consistent effort makes people feel acknowledged not just for what they do, but for who they are.
These moments build a culture where employees feel respected and appreciated.
I see parallels in how I work with clients.
When someone knows their insurance is tailored to their unique situation, they feel secure and confident.
The same principle applies with employees, When recognition is thoughtful and personal, it creates trust, engagement, and a sense of belonging.
Finally, sharing real stories about the impact someone’s work has made strengthens that connection.
Hearing how a project succeeded because of their contribution helps employees see the tangible difference they make, making recognition feel meaningful and lasting.
Handwritten Notes Beat Gift Cards
Yassien Youssef
Real Estate Investment & Development, Compass
Daily feedback rituals make a big difference. Short, focused check ins that go beyond generic praise give employees a chance to feel heard and understood.
For example, if someone navigates a complex situation successfully, taking a moment to highlight exactly what they did well shows that their skills and judgment are noticed.
Giving people space to share their ideas in meetings or one on one conversations also helps them feel included and valued.
Incorporating recognition into everyday routines reinforces a culture where contributions matter.
Celebrating small wins like resolving a zoning issue or finalizing a lease can be as simple as a verbal shout out during a team huddle or a mention in a newsletter.
Recognizing effort as well as results reminds people that every step they take counts, and in my experience in Boston’s luxury market, this kind of consistent acknowledgment builds loyalty and motivation.
Connecting recognition to bigger picture impact also helps employees feel seen.
Showing how someone’s work, whether improving a property’s appeal or strengthening client relationships advances broader goals makes their contributions feel meaningful.
Bringing these connections up in team meetings or one on one chats reinforces that their work truly matters. Finally, authenticity is key.
Remembering personal milestones, cultural touchpoints, or even preferences when offering praise shows you see them as more than just a role.
Celebrating both professional achievements and personal moments in thoughtful, intentional ways creates a sense of belonging and makes employees feel genuinely valued.
Daily Feedback > Yearly Review
Ben Rasmussen
Advisor, Email Guard
Employees feel truly seen when recognition is personal, consistent, and genuine.
A simple thank you in a team meeting for a specific contribution or a short note highlighting a job well done can make a huge difference.
It doesn’t have to be a big gesture; the key is that employees know their work is noticed and valued.
Regular feedback rituals help make this recognition a habit.
Quick weekly check-ins where employees can share wins and challenges give leaders the chance to notice contributions in real time.
Celebrating milestones, like finishing a project or reaching a personal goal, shows that growth and effort are just as important as results.
Everyday actions matter too.
Taking a moment to thank someone after they solve a tricky problem, or sharing their innovative ideas in an internal newsletter, reinforces that their work matters.
Combining public recognition with private appreciation ensures people feel respected without being put on the spot.
The most effective recognition is consistent and specific.
Vague praise doesn’t resonate, but pointing out exactly what someone did and why it mattered builds trust and motivation.
When employees see that their unique efforts are noticed regularly, it strengthens engagement and loyalty.
Specific Thanks, Every Single Time
Public recognition during team meetings is a powerful way to make employees feel valued for their contributions.
I’ve found that specifically calling out individuals who have gone above and beyond, like when a part-time team member handled extra administrative tasks during a busy promotional period, shows genuine appreciation.
Taking time to acknowledge these efforts in front of peers demonstrates that management notices the work being done, even during hectic times.
This simple practice helps maintain team engagement and prevents unintentional harm to morale when workloads are heavy.
Public Call-Outs Heal Heavy Workloads
Dr. Thomas W. Faulkner
Principal Consultant, Faulkner HR Solutions
Look, recognition doesn’t need to be elaborate. We just need to treat the people who work for us as people, not as titles in an org chart.
At the end of the day, employees aren’t begging for a pat on the back. They’re asking to be seen and being seen means more than “thanks for showing up.”
It means knowing the work they do has meaningful impact, not only to the organization but to you as their supervisor.
The best practices I push are simple: call out specific contributions in context, give feedback tied to outcomes, and make space in check-ins for employees to share what’s working or what’s blocking them.
Employees are so much more than just a headcount. If you see it, they will too.
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See the Human, Not the Headcount
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