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The Un-Stressing Method: Three Simple Steps to Break the Burnout Cycle

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March 24, 2026

The Un-Stressing Method: Three Simple Steps to Break the Burnout Cycle

By Amy Leneker

The burnout cycle doesn’t start with collapse.

It starts with competence.

It starts with being the one people rely on. With saying yes because you can handle it. With pride in being dependable, capable, and composed under pressure. This is the burnout cycle in its most seductive form: High functioning on the outside. Hollowed out on the inside. Burnout among working Americans has surged to a six-year high—evidence that the way we’re working isn’t working.

  • Three Dimensions of Burnout

Burnout isn’t just “being tired” or having a bad week at work. The World Health Organization defines burnout as an occupational phenomenon with three distinct dimensions: emotional exhaustion, mental distance or cynicism toward one’s job, and reduced professional efficacy. In real life, that looks like feeling drained before the day even starts, becoming detached or numb toward work that once mattered, and quietly questioning whether what you do makes any difference anymore. Burnout isn’t a motivation problem—it’s chronic workplace stress that hasn’t been managed.

  • Dangers of Chronic Stress

The U.S. Department of Labor reports that chronic stress doesn’t just hurt individuals—it harms performance and culture. The ripple effects are felt across entire organizations:

  • Increases absenteeism. Ongoing stress takes a toll on physical and mental health, leading to more sick days, unplanned absences, and extended leaves;  
  • Diminishes productivity. High-stress environments overload the brain, reduce focus, increase mistakes, and decrease overall performance;
  • Elevates risk of workplace incidents. Stress-related fatigue slows reaction time, clouds judgment, and increases the chances of accidents or safety violations; and
  • Erodes morale and exacerbates turnover. Chronic stress chips away at engagement and commitment, leaving employees dissatisfied and disengaged

And stress isn’t just a performance problem today; it’s a leadership problem for tomorrow. Stress is reshaping careers and leaving leadership pipelines at risk. The State of Stress and Joy at Work national study reports that large numbers of working Americans are opting out of leadership altogether due to stress. American workers report that due to work stress:

  • 63% have considered leaving their career
  • 61% avoid managing others
  • 45% have lowered their career goals
  • 44% have avoided promotions

It’s time for less stress and more joy at work—and beyond.

  • A Simple Un-Stressing Method

Here’s a simple un-stressing method 96% of American workers report as helpful in understanding and managing their stress. 

The three steps are as follows:

1. See stress differently.

It all starts with two tiny questions that change everything: Is this important? and Do I have control over it? Most of our stress lives in the space where we skip the questions and jump straight to worry. But clarity changes that. When you pause to name what really matters and release what’s not yours to carry, everything changes. Based on your answers to the two questions, you place the stressor in the appropriate quadrant of The Un-Stressing Matrix™.

2. Sort stress into five actionable categories.

Not all stress is created equal and workplaces need to stop treating it like it is. There are five distinct types of work stress: Schedule, Suspense, Social, Sudden, and System.

  • Schedule Stress is from having too much to do and not enough time.
  • Suspense Stress is stress from waiting for what’s uncertain or looming and the anticipation causes stress.
  • Social Stress is from tension in relationships and team dynamics.
  • Sudden Stress is the stress that arrives unannounced and demands a response, such as an urgent request or a last-minute change.
  • System Stress is stress from structures, processes, and culture.

Each has its own behaviors, patterns, and solutions. Naming the type of stress allows you to solve the root problem of stress, not just a symptom.

3. Solve stress without spinning.

This is where we trade overthinking for doing. The matrix makes the next step visible without overthinking or analysis paralysis.  

And then for the best part – celebrate the shift! The goal isn’t just less stress—it’s more joy. When you start using this method, you’ll free up time, space, and energy. You don’t need to earn joy or find joy. It’s been there all along—you just couldn’t see it behind the stress.

It’s time to stop the cycle of burnout and start leading your life.

About the Author

Amy Leneker is an optimistic, joy-seeking, recovering workaholic. She’s also a leadership consultant with over 25 years of leadership experience, including a decade in the C-suite, who has helped over 100,000 leaders, teams, and organizations (from Fortune 100 companies to the public sector) thrive at work through keynotes, coaching, and training, centered on less stress and more JOY. A first-generation college student, Amy earned both her undergraduate and graduate degrees while working full-time and later raising a family. She has studied leadership at Yale, neuroscience at the NeuroLeadership Institute, and stress resilience at Harvard Medical School. Amy has appeared in Fast Company, Inc., CEOWORLD Magazine, and other prestigious outlets. She is the author of the first national study on joy at work, The State of Stress and Joy at Work 2026: America’s Joy Problem, and Cheers to Monday is her first book.

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The Warning Signs: Spotting and Addressing the “Foot Out the Door” Syndrome

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The Warning Signs: Spotting and Addressing the "Foot Out the Door" Syndrome

In an era of relentless layoffs, economic volatility, and eroded job security, a quiet survival strategy has gained momentum: “career cushioning”—secretly interviewing while still employed. 

Is it disloyalty, or simply smart self-preservation? 

On HRSpotlight, CEOs, founders, recruiters, and HR innovators offer candid, no-nonsense perspectives on this modern workplace reality. 

They explore why high performers quietly update their LinkedIn and polish resumes long before giving notice, and what it reveals about trust, growth, and retention. 

More importantly, they share battle-tested approaches leaders can take when they spot the signs—without resorting to surveillance, guilt trips, or denial. 

From proactive career conversations and transparent growth paths to removing daily friction, recognizing contributions early, and building environments where people no longer feel the need to hedge, these experts show that the antidote to cushioning isn’t control—it’s connection, clarity, and genuine investment in people. 

Discover how forward-thinking leaders are turning a symptom of insecurity into an opportunity for stronger loyalty and performance.

Read on!

Steven Lowell
Sr. Reverse Recruiter & Career Coach, Find My Profession

There is absolutely nothing wrong with “career cushioning”.

In fact, a 2022 survey showed that job seekers who were already employed were hired 45% faster than unemployed candidates.

It is necessary to continue searching in order to keep building your network, just in case of an unexpected layoff or market downturn.

If a leader notices that their best staff seem to have one foot out the door, there are 3 approaches to dealing with this:

– Say nothing and let things play out while learning from the actions the staff took up until they left.

– Sit the staff down and have a heart-to-heart about the possible reasons they decided to look around. The only reason I caution against this approach is because it might create anxiety or conflict for the staff, now that they know their boss is aware of their possible departure. Tiktok and Reddit have become hot zones for, “I can’t believe my boss!” stories.

– Make a gesture or series of gestures that shows the staff, “I want you to stay around for a while.”

Using an example from my career, at Find My Profession, I suggested hiring someone back in 2021 and I knew she was amazing. I knew she would leave sooner than later, if the job became boring. So, I suggested that she become my boss and I would step aside. The gesture, along with the new challenges, gave her reason to stick around for several years, as the company grew.

There are some who believe that staying in charge or growing a business requires tough, unyielding leadership.

However, making moves to take care of staff, in the name of growing the business, usually turns into a win-win situation.

Career Cushioning Is Smart Self-Preservation

Sreekrishnaa Srikanthan
Head of Growth, Finofo

I get why people do career cushioning, especially when jobs can feel unstable.

What worked for our team at Finofo was simple quarterly chats about where people’s heads were at.

It took a while, but folks got way more comfortable talking about what they actually wanted next.

Now when I see our best people looking around, I just talk to them. We thank them for their work here and get behind whatever they want to do next, instead of acting like a job search is a betrayal. 

Open Chats Stop Secret Job Searches

Andrew Geranin
Head of Product, Resume

Career cushioning is not disloyal; it is a self-preservation behaviour in the face of market uncertainty, not an indication of dissatisfaction.

In the current turbulent world, intelligent professionals desire to remain prepared, and that should not be interpreted as disloyalty.

To leaders who see the best talent going adrift, it is not about guilt but about being clear and developing.

Conduct actual discussions on career pathing, skill building, and contribution.
When a person feels challenged, noticed, and is moving forward, they will hardly continue to search.

The exit behaviour generally begins much earlier than the updating of resumes.

Cushioning Signals Growth Gaps Early

Eli Zimmer
CEO, Luxaire HVAC Services

It’s definitely something that happens frequently.

Ideally though, of course, you don’t want it to be happening in your business with your employees. You of course want them to stay because employee retention is so important.

So if you feel as though your best employees seem like they have a foot out the door, it could be wise to pull them aside and ask them for feedback.

Don’t be accusatory or make them feel like they are in trouble for what they are doing – approach it from an angle of wanting to make things better for them however you can.

Ask for Feedback, Don’t Accuse

Ryan Dosenberry
CEO, Crushing REI

Career cushioning feels more like a wake-up call to me than a threat.

I’ve found that keeping good people around just comes down to honest talks about where we’re actually going and what’s in it for them down the road.

In my one-on-one, I focus on what they want for themselves. When I connect their goals to our team’s targets, they stop just showing up and start pitching new ideas.

Honest Talks Align Goals and Keep Talent

Robert Pace
President, World Trade Logistics

My take on career cushioning is you can’t stop it and nor should you try.

People usually start quietly interviewing because something in their day-to-day life isn’t working, not because they’re disloyal or fickle.

As a leader, our job isn’t to police loyalty, it’s to fix the reasons that make people feel like they need a backup plan.

In my experience, the biggest retention wins come from simple, consistent habits: clearer expectations, removing daily friction points, and making sure top performers know they’re valued.

When people feel seen, supported, and actually growing, they stop looking over the fence.

Instead of policing career cushioning itself, we need to police issues that lead to it.

Fix Root Causes, Not the Cushioning

Frederic S
Co-Founder, RemoteCorgi

We’re hearing more about career cushioning these days and it has become a normal part of modern work, especially in remote-friendly industries.

People aren’t quietly interviewing because they’re disloyal – they’re doing it because the job market feels unstable.

Layoffs can happen with little warning, companies pivot quickly, and many employees have lived through at least one unexpected restructuring.

Cushioning is simply a way to feel prepared, the same way companies build runway or diversify revenue streams.

For leaders, the instinct is often to feel frustrated or betrayed. But in my experience at RemoteCorgi, career cushioning is usually a symptom, not the root problem.

When high performers start exploring outside opportunities, it’s typically because they’re sensing misalignment (ie: unclear expectations, limited growth paths, or a culture that’s shifted without explanation). Rarely is it about salary alone.

The best response isn’t to tighten control or monitor behavior. It’s to create an environment where people no longer feel the need to cushion in the first place. That starts with honest, regular conversations about career trajectory, skill development, and what meaningful work actually looks like for them.

Give employees transparency about company direction, invest in their growth, and make sure their contributions are clearly recognized.

When people feel valued, supported, and connected to the bigger mission, they’re far less likely to keep one foot out the door.

Career cushioning might be a modern reality, but strong leadership can make it unnecessary.

Build Trust to Make Cushioning Unnecessary

Skandashree Bali
CEO & Co-Founder, Pawland

Career cushioning is often a symptom, not the root problem.

From my experience leading a fast-growing pet care platform, I’ve learned that when high-performing employees quietly explore opportunities elsewhere, it rarely means they’re disloyal, it usually means they no longer see a growth path, purpose, or psychological safety where they currently are.

Employees don’t suddenly wake up wanting a new job; they wake up realizing they’re not valued where they are.

I think leaders must stop treating career cushioning as a “threat” and instead view it as emotional data. If great people are preparing for something better, we should ask ourselves: Why don’t they feel that “better” exists here?

My advice for leaders:

Offer clarity on growth, not just encouragement.
“You’re doing great” is not a growth plan. People need transparent pathways on what comes next.

Have real conversations before exit interviews.
Most founders only get honest feedback when someone resigns. Change that. Ask openly:
“Is this still the place where you see your future? If not, what would need to change?”

Reward contribution, not just loyalty.
Top performers want progress, not stagnation. Career development should be earned, not delayed.

Normalize ambition, don’t punish it.
If people fear that expressing ambition risks their reputation internally, they’ll explore it externally.

When leaders build a culture where people feel seen, challenged, and supported, career cushioning naturally decreases.
Retention is never about making people stay, it’s about making them want to stay.

Career Cushioning Signals Growth Gaps Early

Bennett Maxwell
CEO, Franchise KI

When people on my franchise teams started looking elsewhere, it was usually because they felt stuck.
So we started talking openly about flexibility, like sabbaticals or temporary role changes. Suddenly, our best people would just tell us what they needed. That honesty saved us from losing a few key players.

When you sense someone is drifting, get curious instead of suspicious. You might actually find a way to keep them.

Open Conversations Turn Drift into Retention

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The Accountability Reset: How to Rebuild Discipline Without Killing Morale

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The Accountability Reset: How to Rebuild Discipline Without Killing Morale

In workplaces where discipline quietly erodes—through missed deadlines, inconsistent effort, or subtle disengagement—a deeper question emerges: what if the real issue isn’t defiance, but a lack of clarity, visibility, or meaningful connection? 

On HRSpotlight, seasoned HR leaders, CEOs, founders, and culture experts reveal practical, non-punitive ways to reverse the slide without leaning on fear or heavy-handed rules. 

From using the 9-box grid to tailor performance interventions, rebuilding clarity through values-driven conversations, creating visible feedback loops and real-time metrics, recognizing positive consistency, training leaders in early, compassionate coaching, and aligning rewards with individual motivators—these voices emphasize prevention over punishment. 

They show how transparency, data, empathy, and shared purpose can transform slipping standards into self-sustaining accountability. 

Their collective experience proves that when employees understand the “why,” see the impact of their actions, and feel supported rather than policed, discipline stops being enforced and starts becoming the natural byproduct of a healthy, high-trust culture.

Read on!

Sam Cook
Content Director, MentorcliQ

We interact with HR leaders daily on different strategies to boost employee engagement (a key discipline issue).

Many in our community are repurposing the 9-box grid template to identify and address the cross-section between performance and potential.

Traditionally a succession-planning tool, it can also serve as a strategic framework to help formulate their performance improvement plan.

Let’s say you have two employees with notable disciplinary issues. When applying the 9-box grid, one has high potential and low performance, while the other has low potential and low performance. These two won’t be treated the same in their PIP; you may even decide not to use a PIP for the high performer, but take a different approach altogether.
It’s a key differentiation tool for improving discipline outcomes

9-Box Grid Tailors Discipline Interventions

Beverly Beuermann-King
CSP, Workplace Mental Health

When behaviour issues begin to increase, the solution is rarely to rely on more negative, punitive discipline.

The focus should be more on clarity, consistency, and culture. HR can start by revisiting expectations through a values-driven lens.

When employees understand what is expected and why it matters, behaviour shifts.

Reinforce those expectations through ongoing conversations, not just corrective action.

Provide leaders with the skills to address issues early, using supportive but direct language that prevents problems from escalating.

Finally, align hiring, promotion, and accountability processes with your core values; people rise—or fall—to the standards you demonstrate every day.

As I often remind the leaders that I work with: “Toxicity doesn’t take root in a culture that consistently communicates expectations and follows through. Values only matter when they shape behaviour and are lived out loud.”

Values Clarity Prevents Discipline Decline

Milos Eric
Co-Founder, OysterLink

When discipline suffers in the workplace, the role of Human Resources should go beyond simply acting as a disciplinarian and look to discover the “why” of the change in behavior.

More often than not, when discipline suffers, it is a sign of burnout, a lack of clarity around expectations, or disengagement rather than being deliberately defiant.

The critical first step is to begin a conversation, conducting listening sessions or pulse surveys to determine the root cause before hurrying to corrective action.

Once HR has an understanding of what is driving the lack of discipline, they should begin to rebuild structure through clear accountability systems and a positive reinforcement approach.

Rather than operating from a place of warnings to uphold the standards, the use of recognition programs that promote professional consistency can, over time, reset acceptable standards naturally.

Managers also need to be coached to model expected behavior, as cultural behavior emanates from a top-down approach.

At its core, restoring discipline is about restoring a sense of purpose.

When employees feel seen and supported and connect to the mission of the company, structure and accountability to that structure become the norm.

Root Cause Listening Restores Purpose

Dr. Nika White
Organizational Development, Nikawhite

An Emotional Regulation Specialist and organizational culture consultant who studies how connection impacts both well-being, human-centered workplaces, and performance.

Employee discipline improves when organizations move from control to clarity.

Most behavioral issues stem from unclear expectations, inconsistent feedback, or leaders modeling the wrong tone.

HR’s role is to reset alignment—by defining behavioral standards, reinforcing accountability through coaching rather than punishment, and training managers in emotional regulation.

When leaders respond calmly and consistently, they de-escalate tension and model self-management.

Pairing this with transparent recognition systems and early, compassionate intervention restores trust and stability.

Discipline then becomes a shared commitment to the culture, not a top-down demand.

Calm Coaching Builds Shared Accountability

James Bowdler
Founder, Prime Carers

PrimeCarers is a remote-first tech-driven company that connects families with independent at-home caregivers.

I also have experience in enterprise consulting, machine learning, and open innovation.

Discipline will erode if your system stops making good behavior visible or meaningful.

Simply showing data about who follows through and who doesn’t can be helpful.

Building feedback loops within the workflow helps your people understand how their consistency affects the team as a whole as it helps reset norms faster than formal intervention.

People respond to patterns they can see.

Visible Feedback Resets Behavior Norms

Richard Dalder
Business Development Manager, Tradervue

When discipline lapses in the workplace, it can create tension and disrupt the harmony that teams need to thrive.

HR has an important task in addressing these issues with empathy and firmness.

It starts with having honest conversations about what is expected, making sure everyone understands the shared responsibility to maintain a respectful environment.

Clear guidelines that are applied fairly help employees feel secure and respected, knowing that rules exist to protect everyone equally.

Managers should be supported to address small problems before they grow larger, showing care for both the individual and the team.

Creating safe spaces for employees to share concerns without fear promotes trust and openness.

Fair Guidelines Foster Trust Early

Ryan McEachron
CEO, ISU Insurance Services

We pushed our clients at ISU Armac to implement mandatory safety training programs—not just because it reduces workers’ comp premiums (which it does, significantly), but because it creates a culture of accountability.

When employees understand that safety violations or performance lapses directly impact their coworkers’ wellbeing and the company’s ability to stay in business, behavior shifts fast.

One manufacturing client cut incident reports by 40% in six months just by adding monthly hazard identification sessions.

The other piece nobody talks about: document everything from day one. I learned this chairing the Planning Commission—vague standards get you nowhere.

HR needs written policies with specific, measurable behaviors and consequences.
Then actually use them consistently. We’ve seen employment practices liability claims skyrocket when companies let problems slide, then suddenly crack down. That inconsistency is lawsuit fuel.

Safety Training Creates Real Accountability

Matthew Marshall
Co-Owner, Wright Home Services

I’ve scaled two home services companies, and here’s what most people miss: declining discipline is almost always a measurement problem, not an attitude problem.

At Wright Home Services, we turned this around by making performance visible in real-time through our CRM system.

We tied individual tech metrics—completion times, customer satisfaction scores, callback rates—to monthly team dashboards that everyone could see.

When one of our HVAC techs saw his first-call resolution rate was 12% below the team average, he self-corrected without a single HR conversation.

The transparency created accountability without the confrontation.

The other piece nobody talks about: reward systems break before discipline does.

We launched a referral program that paid out within 48 hours of a completed job, and suddenly our top performers had a tangible reason to maintain standards.

Poor performers became obvious by contrast, not by complaint.

HR’s real job here is making sure managers have data to point to instead of feelings to argue about.

Once you can show someone their numbers versus team numbers, discipline conversations become collaborative problem-solving, not adversarial.

The few who still don’t respond just fire themselves through their own metrics.

Real-Time Metrics Drive Self-Correction

Katherine King
Co-Founder & CEO, Dazychain

Money is the obvious reward, but if not available here are a few measures HR can implement in order to address and improve employee discipline:

– Make sure the goals and the deadlines are crystal clear. Often employees can’t articulate their job description because there is a disconnect between what they are hired and compensated for and what they are being asked to do.

– Identify what is important to individuals and teams and focus on incorporating those reward systems into milestones and goals.

A good reward is defined differently across cultures, so get leadership involved and ask individuals and teams “What does success look like this quarter/year” The answers pave the roadway to effective reward systems and ultimately behavioral change.

Personalized Rewards Shape Desired Behavior

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Why Workplace AI Adoption is Quietly Becoming a Retention Risk

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February 26, 2026

Why Workplace AI Adoption is Quietly Becoming a Retention Risk

By Stephanie Davis Neill, COO of Click Boarding

The rapid adoption of AI has many employees, and organizations for that matter, feeling like everything is spinning. We are witnessing a pivotal moment in the evolution of the modern workplace. We have just released some new research at Click Boarding, which has found that mandated AI adoption is quietly emerging as a retention risk for employers.

AI processes being implemented across workplaces seem to currently be driving disengagement instead of delivering productivity gains. U.S. employee engagement has fallen to its lowest level in 10 years, while job-seeking activity is at a decade high. This month is especially high risk for employers, with the most resignations happening in March last year.

  • The leadership disconnect

A disconnect is apparent as only 4% of employers report employee resistance as a barrier to AI adoption. However, nearly a quarter of workers (22%) say that they would consider leaving a job because of this. This suggests many leaders are unaware of this growing resentment from employees. Analyzing social media posts, we found that employees are quitting over mandatory AI tools that reduce their autonomy, create extra processes and make their work feel less meaningful.

Search data also shows a 10% year over year increase in U.S. searches for “quitting my job.” More tellingly, we are seeing the emergence of specific queries like “made to use AI at work,” which now garners 1,000 monthly searches. This disengagement stems from the challenges of managing change, with AI adding another layer of uncertainty for employees and HR alike. When tools are mandated across a workforce without proper integration, it can create a friction that workers are increasingly unwilling to tolerate.

  • The burden of training your own replacement

A primary driver of employee frustration is the lack of inclusion in AI-related discussions with leadership. Our analysis found workers to have expressed discomfort with developing AI tools and reporting on their performance, something which is rooted in fears that the systems they train could eventually replace their own roles. Without transparency, employees may feel they are being asked to build the very tools that will lead to their job roles becoming obsolete.

In sectors like information, technology, and professional services, AI adoption and labor demand for AI skills are rising sharply. Stanford’s AI Index notes an 80% year over year increase in AI skill demand for the information sector alone. Yet, despite this demand, Glassdoor reviews for leading IT companies in the U.S. show that workers feel sidelined and want to be involved in AI-related discussions.

  • Quality concerns and the “AI Big Brother” effect

We also found that many employees still prefer to spend longer doing something without AI due to creativity and quality issues. In some cases, the pressure is so high that people are lying about their AI use to meet mandatory usage requirements. There are frustrations around poor AI performance blamed on “bad prompts”, and that management has too high expectations of AI to replace job responsibilities it is not yet capable of.

The implementation of these tools is sometimes also perceived as a new form of surveillance. One Glassdoor review described their organization’s AI tools as “AI Big Brother,” negatively mentioning having daily screen time tracked down to the minute. Another suggested that those who do not engage with, or believe in, AI, faced worsened career prospects. This creates a culture of performative adoption rather than genuine, productive integration.

  • Rethinking change management for the AI era

Even before AI, change management has always been one of the most challenging things to get right in business. HR is often looked at to lead these efforts, but HRs are navigating the same uncertainty as the rest of the staff. We must remember that just as AI must learn and iterate, so do the employees working alongside it. It is a gradual process of adaptation and not a binary event that happens overnight.

To mitigate AI-related retention risks, I recommend that employers update compliance-driven policies to include AI guidelines and share key AI process information early in onboarding. It is essential to ensure that employees acknowledge these too. This sets a foundation of transparency for the entire tenure of the employee, and sharing this information early helps set the right expectations from day one.

  • The power of proactive feedback loops

Internal feedback mechanisms, especially anonymous ones, often provide a place for disengaged employees to communicate some of the frustration that can build up. This is especially vital when regular conversations are not happening with a direct leader. Providing regular and open feedback channels will allow organizations to address concerns proactively. By listening to their staff, organizations can pivot their AI strategies to be more supportive.

Ultimately, the goal is to keep employees engaged and empowered as AI adoption continues to evolve. You can learn more about the retention risk of getting AI adoption wrong to ensure your organization is on the right side of this transition.

Stephanie David Neill

About the Author

As COO, Stephanie Davis Neill leads efforts to retain and grow Click Boarding’s customer base while optimizing operations for scalable growth. With over 25 years of experience in operations across startups, private-equity-backed firms, and Fortune-ranked companies, she is a proven change leader, most recently serving as VP of Customer Success & Direct Sales at Aaron’s.

Passionate about building efficient processes, she applies Lean/Six Sigma methodologies to drive strategic problem-solving and cross-functional collaboration. Her expertise spans B2B account management, customer experience, and service management. A Georgia Tech graduate, Stephanie enjoys traveling and volunteering when not at home in Marietta, Georgia, with her family and rescue dog, Peanut.

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Quitting An Internship: Warning Signs That Tell You to Bail

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Quitting An Internship: Warning Signs That Tell You to Bail

What if that “dream” internship is quietly derailing your career before it even starts? 

In a market flooded with opportunities promising growth, many hide toxic traps like endless busywork or ghosting mentors that leave interns questioning their worth. 

How do you spot the moment to cut losses and run, preserving your confidence and time for real development?

HR Spotlight turned to CEOs, founders, and strategists who’ve seen it all: from vague roles breeding cynicism to ignored ideas eroding potential. 

Their unfiltered warnings? 

When feedback vanishes, hours explode without purpose, or your voice echoes in silence—bail fast. 

These aren’t minor hiccups; they’re signals of environments that exploit rather than empower. 

Discover how reframing “stuck” as a cue to exit can transform a bad gig into a stepping stone. 

Ready to decode the signs and safeguard your future? 

These eye-opening insights await on HR Spotlight.

Read on!

Aditya Nagpal
Founder & CEO, Wisemonk

A clear red flag that signals to an intern it’s time to walk away is when the company treats them like free labor instead of as a budding professional deserving of guidance.

An internship should provide structure, feedback, and opportunities for learning.

If weeks pass and the intern is stuck doing repetitive tasks without understanding how their work fits into the overall goals, that indicates the environment is not focused on their growth.

At Wisemonk, we collaborate with global teams and young talent across India, and we notice a consistent pattern.

Interns do well when they have a manager who takes a few minutes to coach them and show real interest in their development.

When that support is lacking and the culture ignores questions or makes interns feel replaceable, the intern should consider stepping away.
The early stages of a career should build confidence, not take it away.

Walk When They Treat You Like Free Labor

Cyrus Partow
CEO, ShipTheDeal

When your interns are constantly exhausted and making cynical jokes, but management doesn’t seem to notice, that’s a bad sign.

Good teams talk about this stuff.

They actually ask if you’re drowning in work.

But when your concerns get brushed off and nothing changes, the work gets sloppy and people just stop caring. If they’re not interested in fixing things, it’s time to go.

Burnout and Cynicism Signal a Toxic Team

Justin Carpenter
Founder, Jacksonville Maids

Here’s a red flag: a company that wants you to work insane hours but can’t tell you what you’ll actually learn.

I’ve seen interns get treated like extra bodies, not future talent, and they just quit caring.

It’s not the only reason to leave, but every time I’ve managed interns, the ones with predictable schedules did the best work and learned the most.

Quit When Hours Spike and Growth Stays Vague

Aja Chavez
Executive Director, Mission Prep Healthcare

Look, if you keep getting work that has nothing to do with the company’s big picture, it’s time to go.

I’ve seen so many interns get stuck in that rut.

One kid told me he spent weeks just copy-pasting data and felt totally useless.

If you ask for different work and nothing changes, you should probably leave.

Busywork That Ignores Strategy Means Go

Justin Herring
Founder & CEO, YEAH! Local

If your supervisor never replies, meetings keep getting cancelled, and you’re left guessing what’s next, that’s a real problem.

I’ve watched interns just freeze in situations like that.

Their learning stops dead without any feedback or direction.

If you’re not getting actual guidance after giving it some time, you should find an internship where they’ll actually show you how to do the work.

Walk When Guidance Vanishes and Feedback Never Comes

Rakesh Kalra
Founder & CEO, UrbanPro Tutor Jobs

If the intern list turns over every few months, or you can’t figure out what you’d actually be doing, that’s a bad sign.

I’ve worked in education and I’ve found that good companies give interns clear direction and real feedback.

If you’re just making coffee runs, find another place.

You deserve a spot where you’ll actually learn something and where people take you seriously.

High Turnover and Vague Roles Signal Exit

Debbie Naren
Founder, Design Director, Limeapple

When an intern finds their ideas are routinely brushed aside or go unheard, that’s a glaring signal that it’s time to consider other opportunities.

An internship should be a launchpad for growth and mutual respect—not a place where one’s potential is stifled or self-worth chipped away.

If your voice is consistently silenced, it’s not just a setback for your learning, but a cue to seek an environment that welcomes your contributions and values your development.

Leave When Your Voice Is Consistently Silenced

Bennett Maxwell
CEO, Franchise KI

After starting a few companies, I noticed a pattern.

High intern turnover or a manager who can’t explain your job clearly usually means the company itself is lost.

We always did better when we gave interns an actual plan and clear work.

If you’re stuck with vague tasks and no real support, just leave.

It probably won’t get better.

Exit When Leadership Can’t Clarify Your Role

Carissa Kruse
Business & Marketing Strategist, Carissa Kruse Weddings

A definite warning sign is when you feel like the internship dismisses your time, growth, or contributions, and this demonstrates a consistent pattern even after bringing up the issues, or seeking clarification.

For example, if you are repeatedly just assigned low level tasks with little learning value, your questions continue to go unanswered, and if deadlines or expectations are ambiguous enough that they create excess stress, this is a clear indicator that this experience is not being intentionally created to support your growth.

Another powerful warning sign is the absence of mentorship or constructive feedback.

Internships are meant to be places to learn, not just be a working environment.

If your supervisor or manager is unable to even find time to mentor you, review your work, have you understand the “why” behind each project, you are no longer learning a skill, you are just providing free labor.

Once either of these patterns becomes the norm or the expectation, you can feel certain it’s time to reconsider and find a placement that values your potential, growth and time in a fair way.

Leave When Mentorship and Purpose Are Absent

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Employee Recognition Missing the Mark? The Feedback Rituals That Actually Matter

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Employee Recognition Missing the Mark? The Feedback Rituals That Actually Matter

Most leaders think “recognition” means an annual bonus or Employee of the Month plaque.

The founders and CEOs in this HR Spotlight roundup disagree—loudly.

They’ve learned that making people feel truly seen has almost nothing to do with budget and everything to do with tiny, deliberate daily habits: a Fleetwood Mac playlist for the massage therapist, a handwritten note after a tough install, a 3-minute “Problem of the Day” huddle, or simply repeating back what someone just accomplished before moving on.

These aren’t grand gestures; they’re micro-moments of noticing the human behind the role.

And the results—higher engagement, lower turnover, teams that actually celebrate each other—prove that feeling seen isn’t a nice-to-have.

It’s the new competitive advantage. Here are the exact rituals and gestures that actually work.

Read on!

Damien Zouaoui
Co-Founder, Oakwell Beer Spa

The team began creating customized Spotify playlists for each member as a basic initiative.

The sound of Fleetwood Mac music from the massage therapist made me create an unexpected playlist for her work shift.

She became delighted when she listened to the music.

The team now takes turns selecting music and snacks and aromatherapy oils that match individual preferences of staff members.

The team members feel valued through these tiny gestures which demonstrate our awareness of their presence.

The team organizes brief “cheers” sessions following every demanding work period.

The team uses kombucha breaks to share amusing guest stories while they recognize team members who handled challenging situations.

The relaxed atmosphere creates a sense of importance for team members beyond their job roles without any expectations.

The brief time spent together brings significant value to the team.

Fleetwood Mac Fixed Morale

Ben Southall
Co-Founder, Talked

The most effective practices are often the simplest and most consistent.

Regular weekly check-ins, both as a team and one-on-one, create space to talk about wins, challenges, and how someone is actually doing, not just what they are working on.

Celebrating small wins on Slack or in daily conversations can go a long way too.

Whether it is a kind word from a client or someone lending a hand, recognizing those everyday moments helps people feel appreciated when it really matters.

Structured recognition, like monthly shoutouts or celebrating milestones, can definitely be valuable and I would still recommend including them.

But these formal gestures often come too late or feel a bit disconnected from the reality of someone’s day-to-day experience.

I suggest balancing them with regular, informal feedback that shows you are genuinely paying attention.

Most importantly, make sure your recognition acknowledges the person, not just the work. Show that you see them as a whole person with a life outside of their role.

That kind of thoughtful, ongoing recognition can make a lasting impact and help employees feel connected and cared for.

Small Wins Beat Annual Awards

Seema Thakkar
President, Vogue Window Fashion

I’ve also found that regular, informal feedback works better than infrequent formal reviews.

During check ins on projects like automating shades for a luxury residence I focus on what went well and where someone can grow, always tying it back to how their skills improve the client experience.

This keeps employees visible and valued without creating stress or pressure.

Even small gestures make a big difference.

Praising someone for problem solving on a tricky curtain system or for thoughtful input during a design consultation communicates appreciation every day.

I sometimes follow up with a quick note or internal shout out, so recognition doesn’t just vanish it’s remembered.

Linking recognition to real client outcomes is also powerful.

Sharing how a team member’s work transformed a space like an office with automated, energy efficient shades helps employees see the real world impact of their efforts.

It makes their daily work feel meaningful in a tangible way.

Lastly, encouraging peer to peer recognition strengthens the culture.

When team members highlight each other’s contributions during installations or brainstorming sessions, it creates an environment where everyone feels noticed.

Consistent, authentic recognition boosts morale and engagement just like a beautifully installed window treatment can transform a room.

Praise the Install, Not the Invoice

Illustrious Espiritu
Marketing Director, Autostar Heavy Duty

For a long time, our recognition practices were a top-down approach.

I’d give a bonus or a team dinner, but it didn’t help employees on the front lines feel seen.

They were just a cog in a machine. We knew we had to find a way to build a positive culture.

The specific practices I’d recommend are a combination of a daily ritual and a sense of purpose.

The daily ritual is a “Problem of the Day” huddle.

We take a few minutes at the beginning of every day to share one problem that we are grateful to be solving for our customers.

This gives the team a sense of purpose beyond a paycheck.

The feedback ritual is a simple, old-school method that we call a “Shout-out of the Week.” Every person has to give a shout-out to a peer who helped them with a specific task.

This empowers every person on the team to recognize a peer. The daily gesture is to ask, “How can I help you?”

I learned that a person who feels seen is a person who is a partner.

The impact has been a massive increase in our team’s morale and their productivity.

Our team is no longer just a collection of people with a task. They are a collection of problem-solvers.

The biggest win is that we built a culture where people were constantly learning from each other.

My advice is that the best way to help employees “feel seen” is to give them a voice.

Daily Problems, Daily Purpose

Patrick Ono
Insurance Expert, Patrick Ono Agency

Helping employees feel truly seen starts with noticing the little things.

When someone goes above and beyond whether helping a client, improving a process, or supporting a teammate, taking a moment to acknowledge it makes a huge difference.

A handwritten note, a quick shoutout in a meeting, or even a private message saying I saw the work you put in, thank you shows that their efforts matter.

Regular check-ins are also key.

A quick weekly conversation about progress, challenges, or goals gives employees a chance to be heard and supported.

Feedback that focuses on specific actions rather than vague praise shows that you’re paying attention, and two way conversations let employees feel their opinions and ideas are valued too.

Small day to day gestures really add up.

Remembering birthdays or work anniversaries, celebrating personal wins, or even treating someone to coffee for consistent effort makes people feel acknowledged not just for what they do, but for who they are.

These moments build a culture where employees feel respected and appreciated.

I see parallels in how I work with clients.

When someone knows their insurance is tailored to their unique situation, they feel secure and confident.

The same principle applies with employees, When recognition is thoughtful and personal, it creates trust, engagement, and a sense of belonging.

Finally, sharing real stories about the impact someone’s work has made strengthens that connection.

Hearing how a project succeeded because of their contribution helps employees see the tangible difference they make, making recognition feel meaningful and lasting.

Handwritten Notes Beat Gift Cards

Yassien Youssef
Real Estate Investment & Development, Compass

Daily feedback rituals make a big difference. Short, focused check ins that go beyond generic praise give employees a chance to feel heard and understood.
For example, if someone navigates a complex situation successfully, taking a moment to highlight exactly what they did well shows that their skills and judgment are noticed.

Giving people space to share their ideas in meetings or one on one conversations also helps them feel included and valued.

Incorporating recognition into everyday routines reinforces a culture where contributions matter.

Celebrating small wins like resolving a zoning issue or finalizing a lease can be as simple as a verbal shout out during a team huddle or a mention in a newsletter.

Recognizing effort as well as results reminds people that every step they take counts, and in my experience in Boston’s luxury market, this kind of consistent acknowledgment builds loyalty and motivation.

Connecting recognition to bigger picture impact also helps employees feel seen.

Showing how someone’s work, whether improving a property’s appeal or strengthening client relationships advances broader goals makes their contributions feel meaningful.

Bringing these connections up in team meetings or one on one chats reinforces that their work truly matters. Finally, authenticity is key.

Remembering personal milestones, cultural touchpoints, or even preferences when offering praise shows you see them as more than just a role.

Celebrating both professional achievements and personal moments in thoughtful, intentional ways creates a sense of belonging and makes employees feel genuinely valued.

Daily Feedback > Yearly Review

Ben Rasmussen
Advisor, Email Guard

Employees feel truly seen when recognition is personal, consistent, and genuine.

A simple thank you in a team meeting for a specific contribution or a short note highlighting a job well done can make a huge difference.

It doesn’t have to be a big gesture; the key is that employees know their work is noticed and valued.

Regular feedback rituals help make this recognition a habit.

Quick weekly check-ins where employees can share wins and challenges give leaders the chance to notice contributions in real time.

Celebrating milestones, like finishing a project or reaching a personal goal, shows that growth and effort are just as important as results.

Everyday actions matter too.

Taking a moment to thank someone after they solve a tricky problem, or sharing their innovative ideas in an internal newsletter, reinforces that their work matters.

Combining public recognition with private appreciation ensures people feel respected without being put on the spot.

The most effective recognition is consistent and specific.

Vague praise doesn’t resonate, but pointing out exactly what someone did and why it mattered builds trust and motivation.

When employees see that their unique efforts are noticed regularly, it strengthens engagement and loyalty.

Specific Thanks, Every Single Time

Erin Ruddy
Owner, Winston-Salem Massage and Bodywork

Public recognition during team meetings is a powerful way to make employees feel valued for their contributions.

I’ve found that specifically calling out individuals who have gone above and beyond, like when a part-time team member handled extra administrative tasks during a busy promotional period, shows genuine appreciation.

Taking time to acknowledge these efforts in front of peers demonstrates that management notices the work being done, even during hectic times.

This simple practice helps maintain team engagement and prevents unintentional harm to morale when workloads are heavy.

Public Call-Outs Heal Heavy Workloads

Dr. Thomas W. Faulkner
Principal Consultant, Faulkner HR Solutions

Look, recognition doesn’t need to be elaborate. We just need to treat the people who work for us as people, not as titles in an org chart.

At the end of the day, employees aren’t begging for a pat on the back. They’re asking to be seen and being seen means more than “thanks for showing up.”

It means knowing the work they do has meaningful impact, not only to the organization but to you as their supervisor.

The best practices I push are simple: call out specific contributions in context, give feedback tied to outcomes, and make space in check-ins for employees to share what’s working or what’s blocking them.

Employees are so much more than just a headcount. If you see it, they will too.

Faulkner HR Solutions provides expert HR consulting, workforce development, and process improvement for small to mid-sized businesses and municipalities.

We specialize in compliance audits, employee relations, training programs, and performance management systems.

Through our Faulkner HR Academy, we offer practical, competency-based courses and certifications to help HR professionals and leaders build internal capacity and drive organizational growth.

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