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Hard-Won Wisdom: Early Career Lessons That Shaped Leaders’ Paths

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Hard-Won Wisdom: Early Career Lessons That Shaped Leaders' Paths

Think back to your first “real” job. 

The lessons you learned—whether from a supportive mentor, a challenging project, or a memorable mistake—likely still resonate with you today. 

These early experiences are more than just memories; they are the foundational principles that shape who we become as professionals.

With this in mind, we asked leaders from the HR Spotlight community:

What’s a lesson that you learned at a job early in your career that you still apply today?

From simple words of advice to career-altering learnings, their stories reveal the profound and lasting impact of our foundational years and offer invaluable guidance for anyone navigating their own journey.

Read on!

Robyn Davis Sekula
Vice President of Communications and Marketing, Presbyterian Foundation

Robyn Davis Sekula

In my mid-20s, I worked for someone who was fond of minimalistic notes, expecting us to do whatever it was he wanted that day by just a word or two in the note.

In one case, I didn’t know what he wanted, or when, so I ignored it because I didn’t want to look dumb and ask.

When it wasn’t complete by day’s end, he was not happy.

Once that note hit my desk, it was up to me to ask questions to ensure I knew what he wanted.

It’s not your fault the instructions weren’t clear – but it is your responsibility to make up for lack of clarity by asking clarifying questions.

Understanding the assignment is crucial.

Danny Ray
Founder, PinnacleQuote

Danny Ray

Early in my career, I worked in sales for a small insurance agency, and one lesson has stuck with me ever since, listening is more powerful than talking.

Above all, I learned that understanding a client’s needs is the foundation of building trust.

For example, instead of rushing to pitch a product, I focused on asking thoughtful questions and truly hearing the answers. In fact, this approach helped me not only close more sales but also build lasting relationships.

Furthermore, it taught me the value of patience and empathy, two traits that are essential in leadership.

Overall, this simple yet profound lesson has shaped how I connect with clients, lead teams, and grow my business today.

Listening isn’t just a skill; it’s a superpower.

Shane Skwarek
Founder & Chief Technologist, S-FX.com Small Business Solutions

Shane Skwarek

When I started my first job at the age of 14, my boss would often preach that “you never gyp a good worker.” 

He’d often go out of his way to make sure that everyone was appreciated for their hard work, even if it was only giving you an extra $5.  

At the time, it didn’t mean much – until I’d later start employing people myself. 

When someone works hard for you, reward them in any way they can. Whether it’s monetarily, a gift card, or just a note of appreciation – people respond well when they know they’re valued.  

More importantly, it’s a better investment to reward those who already work hard for you than it is to try and find someone to replace them.

Allison Jackson
Communication & Wellness Strategist, FractionX

Allison Jackson

My first job out of college was as a copywriter for a major insurance company. There were about 10 of us on the team.

As you might imagine, writing, proofreading, and editing was essential for the role.

We quickly learned the “Six Eyes Rule.” That meant in addition to your eyes, two other people needed to review your work for errors.

This rule has stuck with me for two decades — and has prevented many mistakes!

Genevieve Piturro
Founder, Genevieve Piturro

Genevieve Piturro

Early in my career in the TV syndication business in NYC, I worked for a very creative and bold man. 

I was reserved and hard-working and never wanted to make a mistake. 

We had an opportunity to market new TV movies, and I watched as his imagination fueled him with new promotional ideas. He wasn’t afraid to take a chance and I think he saw something in me that needed to wake up to that same attitude. 

He took me aside one day and said, “Genevieve, I know you’re holding back – GO FOR IT!”  

His words propelled me to dig deep for what I now call MOXIE. I picked up the phone and made a big ask. To my shock, the answer from the other side of the phone was, “I like it, YES let’s do it!” 

And I have been best friends with my Moxie ever since!

Simon Royston
Founder and Managing Director, The Recruitment Lab

Simon Royston

My first Managing Director preached to me that one should ignore the client! 

He argued that you should ignore the client, deliver on what was agreed and save a lot of procrastination and energy.  

In today’s world in certain circumstances, it really can help.  

Too often clients can be closely examining your methodologies and question your every move. Ultimately, the client came to you to solve a problem and that above all else is what matters. 

That is not to say the client journey is unimportant.  

One should always communicate and report progress or maybe seek further information in specific cases. Just be mindful that time is money, and you are paid to deliver on time and within budget.

Lisamarie Monaco
Co-Owner, InsuranceForBurial.com

Lisamarie Monaco

A lesson that I learned long ago and that is valuable to me still to this day is to approach a job by learning it from the back end forward. 

I learned it is important to understand the behind the scenes processes, systems and workflows first so you gain a deeper understanding of how everything works and functions. 

This allows you to have the tools you need independently in that role. And helps avoid relying on others to fill in any gaps or to even fix something when there is a bump in the road. 

This lesson has served me well in my career and in everything I have done since implementing this in my life!

Michael Puck
Founder, Global Dog Art Gallery

Michael Puck

A lesson that I learned early in my career is to challenge everything.  

After eight years in the German military, I moved into HR and transferred to the US. I had no experience with HR in the US, and when I learned how different the US healthcare system works from what I was accustomed to, I designed a model that would give employers more control over healthcare costs. 

In the beginning, I was told many times that this model could never work. Even the Chief Medical Officer of our health insurance carrier told me not to waste my energy. 

After considerable initial resistance (I even got laughed out of the boardroom by my peers on the leadership team), I got the green light to implement the program. 

Right from the start the program engaged over 92% of the employees and even 70% of the spouses. As a result, the company did not receive any healthcare premium increases for five consecutive years, and we reduced the average number of health risks from 2.8 to 1.5. The underwriter calculated our net cost avoidance at over $7 million. 

All of this only happened because I challenged the status quo. The skill of asking probing questions and challenging everything that doesn’t feel right or looks outdated has become the hallmark of my HR career. 

Today, I am working for an HCM think tank where we take on the most pressing challenges today’s business and HR, in particular, face. 

My professional focus these days is based on this early lesson in my career: Challenge Everything.

Karen Southall Watts
Author, The Solo Working Day

Karen Southall Watts

Early in my career I learned to prepare for inappropriate interview questions, because they will happen. 

As a young woman I was often asked about pregnancy, potential pregnancy, and my children. Shockingly, these questions usually came from female interviewers and were often prefaced with remarks like, “I know I’m not supposed to ask this” or “Just between us women” as ways for interviewers to excuse their inappropriate and illegal behavior. 

When the job market is tough, these types of questions increase, because employers know candidates are desperate and can be tricked or coerced into answering. 

Later in my career as an educator and coach I advised clients and students to prepare for questions to pop up on age, religion, family issues, or national origin. 

It’s important for candidates to know in advance how they will handle this—confront, deflect, or answer—and what these kinds of questions mean about an employer.

Craig Attiwill
Founder & CEO, Peloton Technologies

Craig Attiwill

A lesson I learned early in my career can be summed up in one quote: “Insanity is repeating the same mistakes and expecting different results.” 

It’s not a quote from anyone in particular (I don’t think!), let alone anyone famous for their quotes. It’s just a life lesson from the collective.  

It’s not just about learning quickly from your mistakes and moving on. It’s remembering that others have likely made these mistakes, and the result is not going to be any different for you. 

One way to avoid the expensive learning process is to spend more time reading, researching and learning from peers  – understand how others in your role or in your industry have tripped along the way, and then choose another path.

The HR Spotlight team thanks these industry leaders for offering their expertise and experience and sharing these insights.

Do you wish to contribute to the next HR Spotlight article? Or is there an insight or idea you’d like to share with readers across the globe?

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Combating Employee Burnout: Industry Insights and Organizational Strategies

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Combating Employee Burnout: Industry Insights and Organizational Strategies

Employee burnout has evolved from a wellness topic to a multi-billion-dollar operational risk for businesses worldwide.

Defined by severe physical and emotional exhaustion, it directly degrades productivity, increases absenteeism, and inflates healthcare expenditures, posing a significant threat to organizational performance.

The profound impact on individual well-being is clear, but the systemic nature of its causes—from unmanageable workloads to a lack of organizational support—demands a strategic, not just a tactical, response.

Acknowledging burnout as a systemic business problem, rather than an individual failing, is the critical first step.

And a problem understood is a problem half-solved.
To learn more about the other half of the equation, we reached out to HR experts and business leaders from the HR Spotlight community, posing to them the question:

What is the most prevalent contributing factor to employee burnout in your industry? What initiative or strategy does your organization implement to address this issue?

Read on!

Lucila Russo
Human Resources Director, Roar Media

Lucila Russo – Marketing

As the HR director for Roar Media , a multinational integrated marketing with 65 team members, I’ve noticed employee burnout often stems from the onslaught of tight deadlines and the “always-on” nature associated with this industry.

Which is why the agency addressed these challenges by systematically re-hauling our human capital management programs, listening to and prioritizing our team member’s individual needs.

As such, we developed programming and HR policies that offer flexible schedules, a “work away from office” policy that allows employees a degree of geographic autonomy, and 28 days of PTO in their first year.

In addition, we provide paid time off during the period of Chrismtas to New years and a Roar Media team employee appreciation day falling on the last day of spring break. We also initiated “No-meeting Thursdays” that ensures uninterrupted focus time.

We have also created a champion program across wellness, professional growth, team building and recognition. Our wellness champion’s program enables our team members to have access to year-round the a wellness and progressional development budget and resources that supports the team’s mental and physical health, as well as professional growth.

All these things work together to prevent burn out and foster a culture of collaboration and wellbeing.

Kevandre (Dre) Thompson
Director, Dre Thompson

Kevandre (Dre) Thompson – Recruitment

One of the most prevalent factors contributing to employee burnout in my opinion, is being stretched too thin within a lean team or having an overwhelming workload. 

When workloads consistently exceed the capacity a manager, team, or individual contributor can deal with  a multitude of things begin to happen. For example, stress levels rise, leading to exhaustion and decreased productivity in managing tasks, day to day duties, as well as other job functions. 

Without proper support, employees struggle to maintain a healthy work-life balance, which ultimately impacts engagement and retention overall.

To address this, I encourage employees to utilize their organization’s Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs), PTO, and mental health days to recharge,regroup, and refocus. 

Having regular check-in calls with managers fosters open communication, allowing employees to voice concerns before burnout escalates (and coming up with solutions to prevent burnout). 

In addition, team-building activities help strengthen morale and create a supportive work environment. 

Prioritizing well-being isn’t just a strategy, it’s imperative to sustaining a high-performing and engaged workforce.

Sara Thomas
Advisor, Mother Cover

Sara Thomas – Recruitment

One big reason employees burn out is the blurred line between work and personal life when a coworker goes on parental leave. When someone takes maternity or paternity leave, their work is usually spread across teammates who are already busy. This can lead to longer hours, constant emails, and difficulty unplugging from work.

Mother Cover solves this problem by bringing in skilled professionals to step in during parental leave. This keeps workloads balanced, helps teams avoid burnout, and allows new parents to fully disconnect without worrying about overloading their coworkers. It’s a simple but effective way to support both employees and businesses.

Sanju Zachariah
Owner and President, Portiva

Sanju Zachariah – Healthcare

In the healthcare industry, one of the most prevalent contributing factors to employee burnout is the relentless pace and emotional toll of patient care.

Staff often deal with long hours, high patient volumes, and the stress of ensuring quality service in an environment where resources can be stretched thin.

At Portiva, we address this issue by focusing on employee well-being through a combination of flexible work schedules, access to mental health resources, and fostering a culture of open communication. We prioritize creating a supportive environment where team members feel valued and heard.

Regular training on stress management and offering opportunities for professional growth are also key aspects of our strategy, ensuring our staff remains engaged and resilient in their roles.

Jean Christophe Gabler
Publisher & Founder, Yogi Times

Jean Christophe Gabler – Wellness

Burnout is frequently underestimated in the wellness sector, yet it can strike in unexpected ways. Long hours aren’t the only aspect of the job.

Holding emotional space for others is what it’s all about. Deep energy production is necessary for the profession, whether it involves coaching individuals through change, teaching a class, writing about personal development, or assisting someone in overcoming stress.

That emotional commitment and ongoing presence adds up.

Because their work is so closely linked to assisting others, many people in this field feel as though they are unable to move away. It is more difficult to pause when they are more concerned about their work.

We deal with this at Yogi Times by integrating rest into our daily routine.

Simply working too much does not cause burnout. They burn out because they never fully recover. Because we organize our work in cycles, there is real rest following bursts of creative activity.

When there are no outside interruptions during deep concentration hours, the work itself feels less taxing. Intentional communication keeps people from becoming overwhelmed by notifications. Because pointless chatter quickly depletes energy, meetings are kept to a minimum.

Simplified decision-making reduces mental exhaustion. People can remain involved without feeling exhausted when minor stressors are lessened because they accumulate over time.

Burnout isn’t usually immediately apparent. It develops when people repeatedly push past fatigue. Instead of waiting until someone hits a wall, the best approach to prevent it is to incorporate recovery into the process.

Richard Robbins
Owner, TheTechnologyVault.com

Richard Robbins – Technology

Burnout comes from employees working on things they don’t enjoy for long hours without feeling appreciated or valued for what they contribute. To combat this, we have fun employee gatherings where people can get to know each other and feel more connected.

We also try to consistently have our employees set goals that motivate them. Those goals are matched with incentives for achieving them. 

For instance, we set a goal to take our management team on a cruise if we achieved a particular sales goal over the Christmas season. 

Although that season was very busy, with many people working nearly twice as many hours as they were used to, achieving the goal and booking the cruise made it feel as if there was no burnout, and the time off while at sea was the perfect reset for our team.

Josh Norman
Principal & Chief Creative Officer, Texas Creative

Josh Norman – Marketing

Ad agency life is so often synonymous with the term burnout. Ask anyone in the industry. It often stems from the  need for creativity on command, which means grueling 80-hour work weeks that blur all boundaries between professional and personal life. The constant pressure to produce innovative campaigns while managing client relationships and unrealistic deadlines leads to exhaustion no matter what area of the agency you work in. Pair that with the industry’s “always-on” culture of responding to emails at midnight and working weekends, a lot of people in our profession find their initial passion for creative work slowly replaced by fatigue and disillusionment.

After 40 years, our ways of working at Texas Creative have evolved over time. But one of the ways we currently combat burnout is with a simple Venn diagram that determines the type of work we’re willing to take on as an agency. We don’t accept every client that comes our way, but instead we look for clients that fit our culture.

In the three circles of the Good Client Venn Diagram we have the qualities that make a client GOOD — good work, good people, good value. At the center is the perfect client that meets all three. Good work means projects that we enjoy and can be proud of. It’s the fun tasks and the portfolio pieces that make us feel fulfilled. Good people is just that — kind, collaborative, good clients with excellent boundaries who we genuinely enjoy working with. Good value means that the amount of effort we put in is financially well-rewarded.

To have all three is ideal, but we won’t take on a client without an overlap of at least two. If it’s good work and good value, then we can handle a more difficult client. If it’s good people and good work, then the value lies in the feeling of joy we have in the project. And if it’s good people and good value, we can find joy in the most mundane of tasks when doing the work.

At the end of the day, we want our agency work culture to spark joy, not flames. So to avoid burnout, we just have to make sure the things we do at our agency are good.

Marco Manazzone
CEO, Zzone Homes Inc

Marco Manazzone – Construction

The most prevalent contributing factor to employee burnout in the construction industry is often long hours and high stress due to tight project deadlines and safety concerns. This can lead to both physical fatigue and mental stress.

To address this issue, our organization has implemented several initiatives, such as flexible scheduling to help workers manage their time, regular breaks to reduce fatigue, and access to mental health resources. We also  conduct training sessions focused on stress management and resilience, empowering our employees to cope with the demands of the job effectively.

Gerard Virga
Founding Attorney, The Virga Law Firm, P.A.

Gerard Virga – Legal

At my firm, we lead with compassion for both our employees and our clients. Our approach to training new team members and junior attorneys goes hand in hand with a compassionate workplace culture. We’ve created a robust mentorship model that includes extensive shadowing opportunities. 

New attorneys are paired with experienced team members, allowing them to observe real-world legal practice, client interactions, and courtroom strategies. This hands-on approach bridges the gap between theoretical knowledge and practical application. It also enables junior attorneys to learn how more senior staff members manage their caseloads and create healthy boundaries between their work and personal lives.

We cannot assume that employees automatically know how to have a strong work-life balance, especially in industries known for being fast-paced and demanding. Regardless of what opportunities you offer your team to combat burnout, you need to also ensure that everyone knows how to access and implement these opportunities into their lives. 

For example, unlimited PTO is great, but it only works if your team knows how to take a vacation – do they know how and whom to shift their responsibilities so they have coverage while they are out? If they don’t, they won’t use the PTO. 

In short, our firm prioritizes compassion in client service and workplace culture, ensuring new attorneys receive hands-on mentorship. We recognize that work-life balance isn’t intuitive, so we actively guide our team in effectively utilizing resources like PTO, helping them integrate healthy boundaries into their professional lives.

Josh Boardman
Founder, Hewes House

Josh Boardman – Creative

While many managers may think time off is the solution to employee burnout, I have found that time “on”, if directed towards a fulfilling creative task, can be just as rejuvenating. 

My company has offered inspiring creative writing programs to put the pep back in the step of professionals who may feel robbed of creativity by the rigor of their jobs. 

Not everybody needs a vacation — sometimes starting a new novel, the first steps of a memoir, or exploring poetry and short stories can occupy the mind and excite people even more effectively. 

You’d be surprised how many people are experiencing burnout behind desks, people who once dreamed of being successful writers!

The HR Spotlight team thanks these industry leaders for offering their expertise and experience and sharing these insights.

Do you wish to contribute to the next HR Spotlight article? Or is there an insight or idea you’d like to share with readers across the globe?

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A Connected Workforce: Strategies for Addressing Loneliness in All Roles

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A Connected Workforce: Strategies for Addressing Loneliness in All Roles

In the bustling hum of a crowded workplace, loneliness can still cast a silent shadow over certain employees, dimming morale and productivity.

While a packed office might seem immune to isolation, specific roles—think remote IT specialists, night-shift supervisors, or high-pressure executives—can leave even the most dedicated workers feeling disconnected.

We posed a vital question to HR visionaries and business leaders:
Which roles are most vulnerable to employee loneliness, and what HR strategies can effectively combat this hidden challenge?

Drawing on insights like Gallup’s 2024 report, which links workplace connection to a 20% boost in engagement, their innovative solutions—from targeted mentorship programs to inclusive team-building initiatives—offer a powerful playbook for fostering belonging and reigniting workplace camaraderie.

Join us as we uncover the roles at risk and the strategies that bring employees back into the fold.

Read on!

Lisa Lohmann
Founder, LáFora

Lisa Lohmann

‘All the lonely people, where do they all belong?’ sang the Beatles 60 years ago. Turns out, loneliness isn’t just about being alone. It’s just as real in remote work as it is in packed offices.

And one group feels it most: leaders. Managers and executives often report feeling isolated. Why? Leading teams, making tough calls—it’s not something you can easily share. Add to that the fact that most leaders don’t have managers to guide them, and the usual team-building events aren’t really built for them. Between workloads and maintaining authority, they rarely join the Friday drinks or trivia nights.

So what’s the fix? According to Harvard Business Review, company-sponsored activities can ease workplace loneliness. And for leaders specifically, there’s one standout solution: leadership offsites.

Offsites are 2-5 day retreats where leadership teams can step away from the office noise to strategize, connect, and actually talk. These aren’t about PowerPoints and packed schedules – they’re about creating space to connect. Space for real conversations, honest challenges, and (yes) even friendships. From workshops to team challenges to relaxed dinners, offsites break down the barriers that isolate leaders.

Investing in leadership offsites shows you care about your leaders. And when leaders feel supported, they show up stronger for their teams. Fixing loneliness isn’t just about wellbeing – it’s about creating a workplace where everyone thrives, starting from the top.

Tonya Ladipo, LCSW
Founder and CEO of The Ladipo Group

Tonya Ladipo, LCSW

Loneliness stems from a sense of disconnection. We can be surrounded by people and still feel lonely, which only intensifies our feelings.

Employees who report to multiple departments but lack their own dedicated team often feel isolated. Remote workers are also at a risk for loneliness, especially in organizations where other roles are hybrid or in-person.

Here are a three HR strategies to help combat loneliness in the workplace:

Schedule regular, casual check-ins with team members to foster connection beyond work-related conversations. A simple 30-minute coffee chat, guided by a few questions, can help bring people together. Ask people to share their favorite TV shows or play a work-friendly version of Two Truths and A Lie.

Create structured opportunities for roles that are inherently isolated. Have employees attend department meetings for adjacent departments and teams. This is another opportunity for connection that also allows a new perspective of the work, which will also likely generate new ideas.

Encourage participation in Employee Resource Groups (ERGs). Joining ERGs promotes a sense of community while enjoying company-sponsored events.

Creating connection is the key strategy to combat loneliness at work and in life!

Iqbal Ahmad
Founder & CEO, Britannia School of Academics

Iqbal Ahmad

Certain positions such as leadership roles and senior managers, within an organisation, are naturally more prone to loneliness, even in a busy workplace. It is natural for them to feel isolated as they cannot share their challenges with their subordinates. Remote workers are also more likely to feel disconnected as there is no team interaction in their daily routine.

HRs can address these challenges with practical strategies to create a real connection. Regular check-ins or informal meetings regarding the current situation of projects can provide a space for employees to talk about the challenges they are facing.

Cross-departmental collaborations, or organising social events within the organisation also enhance the interaction between employees at the workplace. Regular team dinners and lunches will also help to bring the remote workers out from their dens to enjoy some time with colleagues.

Small actions like encouraging feedback, creating peer groups, or just making everyone feel included can make a big difference in reducing loneliness and building a stronger team.

Samantha Taylor
Business Consultant, LLC.org

Samantha Taylor

Loneliness in the workplace often impacts people who have jobs where they work by themselves or do not talk much with others. Remote tech workers, night shift employees, or team leaders handling individual projects can feel lonely even if the workplace is very active.

This I see many times in my over 12 years of helping businesses make strong teams.

HR can do something about this. They can implement a buddy system and pair workers with mentors to help get on a personal level. Organizing project collaborations from different departments is also a good idea. Managers should check how staff are doing with these projects. Social events, both online and in person, can help people feel included.

I always tell companies, they need to try hard so everyone feels like part of the team. Saying thanks for good work is a very important thing. Happy employees=higher output. Companies should value inclusion.

Dr Kevin Huffman
CEO, On the Rocks Climbing Gym

Dr Kevin Huffman

People who perform unique tasks in their job roles encounter specific difficulties when trying to connect with other employees.

For instance, a data scientist who studies advanced algorithms may find it hard to make connections with marketing and sales staff. Specialized knowledge and unique work may create social barriers meaning these professionals have trouble connecting with others at work.

Those who work remotely alongside office-based colleagues still feel disconnected from others. Technology helps us communicate but lacks the full depth of human interaction experience.

Employees who work remotely often fail to participate in casual employee bonding sessions and miss spontaneous team interactions that take place in shared offices.

Leaders in charge often feel disconnected from others despite their influential position. The demanding nature of their work separates them from their coworkers.

Gareth Hoyle
Managing Director, Marketing Signals

Gareth Hoyle

Communication is key: If you work predominantly from home, it’s important to remember to keep in touch to combat loneliness, however, even some people working in an office can experience loneliness. 

As a leader, being present helps you to create a workplace culture built on openness and collaboration, which is essential in any remote or in-person office to combat loneliness. So, celebrate everyone’s successes, no matter how big or small, keep everyone involved and remember to have your door perpetually open. 

While being present in day-to-day meetings reminds your team that you’re there to help, make sure you’re having dedicated check-ins too. This could take the form of a one-on-one video call if you’re a remote worker, a weekly team catch up or a monthly in-person review. All of which can help remote employees feel more connected. 

As remote workers, make sure that we have a face to face catch up with a coffee and/or lunch and spend the day working together at least once a month, wherever is convenient for those meeting up, to help us feel less lonely in a fully remote workforce. 

Encourage socialising: Encouraging your team to chat with one another outside of work hours can boost morale and combat loneliness. Whether it’s a night out, a team meal or simply a call that isn’t about work, I think it’s important for my team to feel like they know each other outside of the workplace. At Marketing Signals, we try to make sure we all meet up twice a year, once in winter and once in summer and then individual teams and managers try to meet up regularly too.

But it’s not just social events that can build a sense of belonging and reduce the risk of feeling lonely. After the weekend, we all make sure we’re catching up on calls to ask how it went to develop a more personal connection. While it’s not always possible or practical to build small-talk into every single meeting, make sure you’re seizing the chances you have to make each other feel connected by simply asking how everyone really is.

Taking calls with the camera on: We tend to make sure that when we’re on calls, we’re using our camera so that we can see each other. This helps maximise communication, and engagement, reduces loneliness and ensures the team are all focused on the call rather than trying to multitask. Seeing the person you’re talking to encourages a more authentic human connection and with a remote team, can help them feel less alone. 

Don’t be an absent manager: In straightforward terms, don’t be an absent manager. There might be a lack of face-to-face contact for those working flexibly, but that doesn’t mean you can’t develop a formal structure that makes regular contact a priority. 

Ensuring every individual at each location has what they need to be successful, whilst making yourself available when they need additional support is essential. This will ultimately help keep remote employees engaged and ensure they feel supported and less alone, despite not working face to face all the time.

Michael Franco
Organizational Development Consultant, Quokka Hub

 

Michael Franco

In my experience with eNPS surveys, individual contributors and leadership roles are the most prone to feelings of loneliness.

The individual contributors feel loneliness due to the independent nature of their work.

Leadership can feel lonely due to the separation that occurs because of the decision-making duties and unique responsibilities.

The best solutions I have seen achieve results are mentorship programs, group leadership development programs, and informal coffee chats.

Mentorship programs foster connections, the L&D leadership programs create community among leaders, and the coffee chats encourage casual conversations across teams.

Shawn Boyer
CEO & Founder, goHappy

Shawn Boyer

Deskless workers often feel left out without access to things like company emails or regular updates from their employers. This can lead to feelings of loneliness, which impacts how engaged and motivated they are.

But HR leaders can change that through simple strategies like regular check-ins, celebrating wins, and asking for feedback can make a big difference.

Tools like goHappy make it easy to keep frontline workers in the loop, helping everyone feel connected, valued, and part of the team.

David Case
President, Advastar Group

David Case

In general terms, I would say that middle managers are often prone to feeling isolated or lonely because of their unique position within a company’s hierarchy.

The people they work with most often will typically be their direct reports, which limits their access to colleagues they can confide in. Even if they generally get along with their teams and have a good rapport, the fact that they’re in a position of authority adds distance in these relationships.

On the other side, they’re not on a peer-to-peer level with upper leadership, either, and opportunities to engage and collaborate with other middle managers who could serve as workplace friends are often limited.

This creates an environment where these individuals are often at high risk for feeling isolated.

One strategy that can be very effective for combatting this isolation is to organize peer-to-peer groups where middle managers across the organization can connect. These could be organized meet-ups or something more like an online forum or chat group.

Another excellent option is to establish a mentorship program that partners middle managers with individuals from senior leadership, which can help to break down the barriers between leadership levels, providing more open communication and giving middle managers another source of support.

Rachel Tuma
Director, HR & Payroll Services, CESA6

Rachel Tuma

I believe the truth is no matter how many people are around us each day from a remote finance person to the outgoing salesperson who seems to know everyone, it’s possible for anyone in any position to feel lonely.

At CESA 6, a 2024 Gallup Exceptional Workplace Award winner, we ask employees as part of our gallup engagement survey if employees have a best friend at work.

We use this data to support events like virtual pet day, wellness competitions, and a Souperbowl (soup competition) to encourage team building and foster a positive environment where employees can develop social connections based on their interests to eventually find that best friend at work.

The HR Spotlight team thanks these industry leaders for offering their expertise and experience and sharing these insights.

Do you wish to contribute to the next HR Spotlight article? Or is there an insight or idea you’d like to share with readers across the globe?

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