HRSpotlight-Logo
Menu

Strategy

Lessons That Stick: What Leaders Learned Early and Still Apply Today

by

Lessons That Stick: What Leaders Learned Early and Still Apply Today

Our early career experiences often serve as a powerful teacher, imparting lessons that shape our professional lives for years to come. 

These formative moments, whether gleaned from triumphs or setbacks or even experiences or words, can provide invaluable insights that transcend specific roles or industries. 

In this post, leaders from the HR Spotlight community share with us some of the enduring wisdom they acquired during their foundational years. 

As is evident, each of these lessons continues to guide their actions and decisions today. 

Their responses reveal the remarkable staying power of early experiences or even powerful words and learnings and offer timeless advice for anyone navigating their own professional journey.

Read on!

Steven Rodemer
Owner and Attorney at Rodemer & Kane

Behind Every Case is a Real Person

Early in my career as a Deputy District Attorney, I quickly learned that behind every case is a real person, whose life could be profoundly impacted by the outcome. 

This realization made me technique each case with the utmost care and diligence, no matter how complex or simple it might be.

Today, as I lead my own law firm, that technique has not changed. 

Whether I’m defending a client or giving legal advice, I always keep in mind the personal stakes involved in any legal dispute. 

For me, practice goes beyond legal strategies; it’s about protecting the lives, futures, and families of those I represent. 

This belief deeply influences how I handle every aspect of my work.

Terry Bourgeois
Founder, Empire State Ride to End Cancer

No Matter What the Assignment, Be Professional

In 1986, I was a junior sailor on my way to my first submarine assignment on Mare Island, California.  

I was very intimidated as I was riding in a car with a very senior Master Chief Petty Officer who would be in my chain of command. 

Master Chief told me one thing that has resonated with me my entire life: “No matter what your assignment is from this point forward, be professional. You will do well if you remain professional, do your job, and respect others”. 

I am retired after serving 12 years in the Submarine Service and 26 years in industry, and I am now focused on raising funds for cancer research. 

I have shared Master Chief’s words with many people and still adhere to them.

Jason Smallheer
Consultant, Educator, Corporate & Growth Leader The Marketing Professor

Be Good. Be Brief. Be Gone.

Be good. Be brief. Be gone.

I learned to use a few words early in my career in media and get out of the way. 

I was a disc jockey when live radio was a big deal, and my time on the mic was precious. People wanted music, not my voice. 

I still practice this today in my marketing and sales career. 

During client presentations, sales meetings, and speaking engagements, it’s essential to get in, cut to the chase, and get out of the way.

Chris Adamson
President, The Adamson Group

Build Relationships While Establishing Boundaries

One of the first lessons I remember was something the CEO of my first job told me, “Work with them all day, drink with them all night, and fire them the next morning.” 

He was teaching me that it is essential to build relationships while still establishing boundaries. 

You must see coworkers as people and, yes, maybe even have a couple of drinks with them. Understand, though, that there also needs to be boundaries. 

As a leader, you need to build relationships, build trust, and build the team, but there are boundaries (yes, that sometimes means firing someone). 

This simple phrase has helped me build relationships and establish team boundaries.

Ana Colak-Fustin
Founder, ByRecruiters

Proactive Updates Before Anyone Needs to Ask

Early in my career, a manager gave me simple advice that changed how I communicate with coworkers and manage stakeholders: “Update them before they feel the need to ask.” 

At the time, I was working with senior leaders and waiting until everything was perfect before sharing progress. In reality, I was keeping them in the dark and risking my credibility when they had to chase me for updates.

Taking that advice, I started proactively sharing updates like small wins, challenges, and anything relevant. 

It built trust, kept everyone aligned, and showed I was dependable and organized. Plus, it saved me from the dreaded “Can I get a status update?” emails.

Even when things aren’t perfect, these updates show respect for others’ time and keep projects moving. It’s a small habit with a big impact, and it’s one I still rely on today.

Paige Arnof-Fenn
Founder & CEO, Mavens & Moguls

Be Curious, Show Respect, and Listen

My first job after college was on Wall Street. I learned to jump in and roll up my sleeves, come in early/stay late, have a strong work ethic and be fun/easy to work with. 

When you are curious and ask a lot of questions people appreciate working with smart people who enjoy learning. 

Pay your dues, get great experience learning from smart people in well run organizations who train and develop your skills so you will be prepared and set yourself up for success. 

Great opportunities follow great teams and talent so when you learn from the best doors open and interesting ideas/options appear.  

Be driven, focused, intensely curious and always be looking for the next way to make something better, be a good listener, show respect for great ideas, and be a strong communicator. 

With these traits and a strong work ethic you will be a success.

Kevin Bryan
Director of Customer Experience, Alloy

Empathy and Active Listening

Early in my career, I discovered the importance of genuinely listening to customers. 

While handling complaints, one frustrated customer said, “I don’t expect you to resolve everything instantly; I just need assurance that you care.” 

That encounter left a lasting impression on me.

I learned that empathy and active listening are essential for building trust, not merely soft skills. 

Now, whether I’m engaging with a customer or managing my team, I prioritize grasping the “why” behind someone’s words before proposing solutions. 

This approach fosters remarkable clarity and connection.

Kelly Roach
Founder & CEO,  Kelly Roach International

Give Your Best and Aim to Extract Highest Value

One of my first jobs was waitressing, and I quickly learned that having a great attitude, going above and beyond, and genuinely striving to provide exceptional service can significantly increase your earnings.

Many people overlook this, especially if they’re in their first job or working in a role that isn’t their dream job yet. 

They miss the opportunity to not only earn more but also learn valuable lessons because they only see the job at face value instead of exploring how to maximize the opportunity.

In my career today, I approach every situation with the mindset of, “How can I make the most of this?” rather than focusing on what I wish were different. 

I focus on extracting the highest value from the circumstances and opportunities right in front of me.

Will Adams
President, Tarkenton Companies

The 10 Commandments!

Early in my career, I was handed a small laminated card titled The 10 Commandments to Personal and Team Success. 

One side outlined 10 Steps to Accountability, and the other detailed 10 Steps to Right Person, Right Place, and Right Time. 

Decades later, after a little wear and tear, I still keep that card in my wallet—and it’s become a guide I return to whenever challenges arise.

The biggest lesson? 

Accountability and clarity are the foundation of success. 

When things aren’t working, I go back to basics. Have expectations been clearly communicated? Are there detailed follow-up plans? Have I fostered a culture of recognition and engagement?

That card reminds me that success isn’t about complexity; it’s about staying grounded in proven principles. Whether managing a team or leading a company, those lessons from early in my career still guide my approach today. 

Simple steps, done consistently, make all the difference.

These steps focus on building a culture of personal and team accountability for success. 

10 Steps to Accountability: 

Clear Understanding of What Is Expected: Ensure everyone knows their roles, responsibilities, and how they align with team goals.

Planning for the Unknown: Anticipate potential challenges, prepare contingency plans, and mitigate risks proactively.

Mutually Understood Consequences: Define positive and negative outcomes tied to performance to guide behavior and decisions.

Detailed Follow-Up Plan: Outline clear next steps after meetings or strategy sessions, and follow through consistently.

Course Correct When Needed: Be willing to adapt plans if something isn’t working, and use accountability steps to identify the root cause.

Be Consistent: Maintain consistent expectations, actions, and communication to build trust and accountability.

Be Involved: Engage actively with your team by asking questions, listening, and providing support.

Assume Nothing: Avoid making assumptions about others’ knowledge or performance; communicate openly and verify details.

Recognize Performance: Celebrate achievements with recognition that motivates and reinforces positive behavior.

If Success Doesn’t Come, Reassess: When issues persist, revisit Right Person, Right Place, Right Time, see below. 

Right Person, Right Place, and Right Time

These steps focus on aligning talent and resources to drive team and organizational success:

Set Clear Expectations: Define roles and responsibilities to ensure alignment with individual and organizational goals.

Continually Assess Performance: Use both formal and informal assessments to track progress and identify areas for improvement.

Be Strategic in Succession Planning: Plan for the future by identifying and developing talent for evolving business needs.

Follow Destination Plans—Don’t Just Fill Jobs: Focus on long-term fit rather than quick fixes when hiring or promoting.

Train and Develop Your Team: Invest in employee growth through regular feedback, skills training, and shared knowledge.

Coach and Mentor: Provide consistent guidance to help employees overcome challenges and reach their potential.

Build Your Bench: Develop a deep pool of skilled, ready talent to step up when needed.

Recruit the Best: Stay actively involved in hiring, ensure alignment with culture, and leverage your top employees in the process.

Manage Performance: Evaluate employees regularly, provide constructive feedback, and take action to address performance issues.

If Success Doesn’t Come, Revisit the 10 Steps to Accountability

Use the accountability framework to address ongoing challenges and recalibrate efforts.

These two frameworks create a comprehensive approach to personal and team success by combining clear expectations, continuous improvement, and a commitment to aligning talent with goals.

Harini Balachandar
Founder, Nexus Diaries

Take Absolute Responsibility for Choices

One of the many lessons I learned in the early days of my career is to take absolute responsibility for my choices. 

When I was hired as a software tester via campus recruitment, I was very excited to land a job within a hot job market back then AND with a highly reputed software consultancy in India. The growth was predictable and enticing!  

Soon, the grind of technical nuances made my excitement fade and my interest dimmed during my training period. I was not too sure of my career choice anymore. 

As fate would have it, I bumped into an internal job posting for an instructional designer, a role unheard of back in the 2000’s and also a full-on switch from left to right brain! 

I had a “what’s there to lose?” mindset and applied for it. I got through! I distinctly recollect my heart racing as I was crossing a busy street to go home and share this news with my parents. 

I kept chanting to myself as I took every step, this is my choice, and no matter the consequence, I will take responsibility for it and only look forward. 

20+ years, I have no regrets. 

I keep telling myself this story when I have had to make important decisions in my career since then.

The HR Spotlight team thanks these industry leaders for offering their expertise and experience and sharing these insights.

Do you wish to contribute to the next HR Spotlight article? Or is there an insight or idea you’d like to share with readers across the globe?

Write to us at connect@HRSpotlight.com, and our team will help you share your insights.

Recent Posts

The Leader’s Role in Organizational Culture: Why Some Get It Right and Some Don’t – Laura Hamill, PhD

by

The Leader’s Role in Organizational Culture: Why Some Get It Right and Some Don’t

Laura Hamill, PhD.

The role of organizational leadership is crucial in shaping its culture.

Leaders need to think of themselves as culture architects, taking accountability for the values and norms of the organization and being intentional about how their actions and communications align with the culture they aspire to have.

An organization’s leaders should be role models for its culture, setting an example for others to follow.

Leaders also need to understand their power and how it impacts culture.

Leaders should be intentional about the messages (explicit and implicit) they are sending to others about what’s important.

One of my observations after working with many different leaders is that leaders are often not aware of their power.

This lack of awareness happens on two levels.

First, leaders fail to understand what kind of power they have and how they might use it – a real missed opportunity.

For example, imagine a leader at an all-hands meeting who doesn’t step in to help clarify when someone asks a question about the culture and instead just leaves the question hanging. This could have been a great opportunity for the leader to embrace their power and help create clarity.

Second, leaders might also fail to understand how their actions might be misinterpreted. They often don’t understand that all their actions, no matter how small, send a loud message about what’s valued and what’s not valued in the organization.

Leaders hold culture megaphones. And the more power they have, the louder it is.

Employees are looking for cues from leaders (as the people who many view as the ones who have “made it”) about what matters.

For example, when a leader decides to leave early from a meeting where people are sharing their perspectives on an important issue. Or the leader repeatedly checks their phone during a highly anticipated meeting.

What did they smile or frown about? Did they interrupt someone? What joke did they tell? Was that ambiguous sentence a message about the future of that team?

People can make mistaken assumptions about the meaning behind even the most innocent actions.

To give a real-life example, in one organization a leader was frustrated about an outcome that wasn’t achieved and ended up yelling at a couple of people in a larger group.

From his perspective, the message needed to be delivered, and he thought he needed to demonstrate a sense of urgency.

But this lack of awareness of his power was glaring. The message he was sending wasn’t about accountability or urgency, but instead was that if you make a mistake you will get in big trouble, publicly.

And the impact was real; not only were the recipients of his all too explicit message embarrassed, but they were also scared.

Unfortunately, this leader’s behavior was also directly in conflict with the organization’s aspirational values.

In one interaction, big messages were sent from the leader’s actions to the organization about what really mattered.

From my perspective, I completely understand why leaders want to take these kinds of actions.

It’s a hard and often frustrating job to lead an organization.

But that’s why leaders get paid a lot of money – to handle that pressure, not to haphazardly push that pressure on to other people.

Instead, this leader could have asked questions and determined what needed to change in the organization to get the results he was looking for and/or to make sure this same mistake didn’t happen again.

Changing culture requires power.

The culture cycle (either virtuous or vicious) has the inertia to continue without significant intentional intervention.

And significant intentional intervention is enabled when those with more power are driving the change.

Often times, though, it is challenging for leaders to understand the need for culture change.

Many leaders are long-term members of their organizational system and no longer see the culture for what it is. Often, these leaders were recruited and promoted for demonstrating the very behaviors that are part of the current culture.

Not only is it hard for leaders to see their own behavior but it’s also extremely difficult for them to be motivated to change a system that has reinforced them psychologically and financially.

And that doesn’t even include those leaders who lack self-awareness about their power or those who choose to use their power for their own interests.

A colleague gave the example of the CEO of her company saying, during an executive staff meeting, that the employees should be 110% committed to the company.

Someone mentioned that quite a few employees had second jobs or side hustles to help pay their bills, so it was hard to be that committed.

He replied that nobody should be moonlighting.

The room went quiet.

My colleague and her colleagues left that session feeling like the CEO was completely out of touch with what people were experiencing and that he was coming from a place of economic privilege.

The one person who gave a different perspective was quickly shot down by the person with the most power in the room.

The CEO left that conversation with his original misinformed perspective not only still in place but also reinforced: that he was primarily concerned with employee commitment to the company, not in understanding or empathizing with what employees were going through (and which also was in direct contrast to one of their company values).

It’s only when leaders separate their own egos and interests and embrace the opportunity to use their power for good that they can create intentional cultures.

Many books about culture are focused on leadership for these reasons.

Some leaders can step outside themselves and realize that change is needed. But others will continue to struggle with culture until they can understand their role in it.

For those leaders, here are my recommendations:

– Embrace their roles as culture architects. Be the voice of the aspirational culture and work to design an intentional culture.

– Understand their own power and how their behaviors impact others.

– Study the current culture from the perspective of employees, understanding that their experience of the culture is likely to be different.

– Hire other leaders who represent other perspectives than their own.

– Learn about culture and specifically learn about how other types of culture like professional, national/ geographical and social identity cultures intersect with the organization’s culture.

– Develop skillsets related to creating psychological safety.

– Ensure the aspirational culture has human elements that include belonging, inclusion, and caring about employees as human beings.

Leaders who embrace their roles as culture architects and understand their own power are the ones who will be differentiating their organizations from others—not only as organizations that are more likely to be aligned and achieve their goals, but also organizations where employees will thrive.

About the Author

Laura Hamill, Ph.D. is an organizational psychologist, ex-Microsoft director, and Limeade cofounder, an employee experience software company.

Through her firm Paris Phoenix Group, she advises companies on how to transform their cultures. She is also a host at the Happy at Work podcast.

Her new book is, The Power of Culture: An Economist Edge Book (The Economist Books, Nov. 12, 2024).

Learn more: parisphoenixgroup.com

Do you wish to contribute to HR Spotlight? Or is there an insight or idea you’d like to share with readers across the globe?

Write to us at connect@HRSpotlight.com, and our team will help you share your experience and expertise.

Recent Posts

Workplace Harmony: Addressing the Challenges of a Multigenerational Workforce

by

Workplace Harmony: Addressing the Challenges of a Multigenerational Workforce

What’s the biggest hurdle to effectively managing and engaging a multigenerational workforce? 

And how can leaders overcome it? 

These are crucial questions for organizations seeking to thrive in today’s diverse work environment. 

To find answers, we reached out to our HR Spotlight community of HR and business leaders from various industries to share their perspectives. 

Each expert offers a unique challenge they’ve encountered, paired with a practical solution they’ve found effective. 

This post compiles their insights, providing a valuable resource for anyone navigating the complexities of a multigenerational team.

Read on!

Mark Whitley
Founder and CEO, Whits Services Corporation

Sensitivity and Adaptability

Running a business means juggling many different things, but one of the most fascinating and sometimes complicated challenges is managing a multigenerational business. 

Imagine your workplace as a dinner table where five generations sit together. Each brings their own tastes, opinions, and experiences to the table. While this mix is exciting, it can also create communication problems.

One of the biggest challenges we face at Whits Services is figuring out how to get everyone on the same page when it comes to communication. 

The older kids on our team often prefer face-to-face conversations or detailed email exchanges. In contrast, younger team members (Millennials and Gen Z) are more likely to send messages on Slack or Teams and expect immediate responses. It’s not that one method is better than the other; everyone has their own pace.

We had a case where this difference caused tension. 

A senior team member thought a quick message about a project update was too informal, while the sender (a junior employee) didn’t understand why it was so important. 

That’s when we realized we needed to address these gaps more proactively.

One thing that has worked wonders for us is organizing communication workshops. During these sessions, we ask people to share their preferred communication methods and explain why they work for them. 

When a millennial team member explained how instant messaging helps speed things up, it resonated with others who might have been hesitant to adopt new tools. 

At the same time, younger employees gained a new respect for detailed emails when their older colleagues explained how these messages help keep a complete story.

We also make sure to provide multiple channels of communication. 

Big announcements can be sent via email, but we will follow up with a quick video overview or an informal team meeting. That way, everyone gets the information in a way that suits them.

But the most important lesson I learned is to listen, really listen. 

During a team brainstorming session, a junior employee suggested using more visual elements in presentations to make things more interesting. It seemed like a small change at first, but the results were incredible. Presentations became clearer, meetings were shorter, and everyone was focused.

It’s moments like these that show the magic of embracing a multigenerational workforce. Sure, it takes effort to manage differences, but when you approach them with sensitivity and a willingness to adapt, you create a team that is not only diverse, but also deeply connected.

After all, managing multiple generations is about more than just keeping the peace. It’s about learning from others and creating a workplace where every voice counts. And when that happens, you don’t just manage a team, you create something extraordinary.

Mandi Spindler
Talent Director, Ulteig

Mentorship, Collaboration, and Conflict Resolution

One challenge in managing a multigenerational workforce is bridging generational gaps in values, expectations and communication styles.

A one-size-fits-all approach is no longer effective, as different generations have unique needs and preferences.

To address this challenge, organizations can take a comprehensive approach to meeting the needs of multiple generations.

For example, Ulteig, an engineering consulting firm with a geographically dispersed employee base, has implemented flexible work arrangements — in-office, hybrid or fully remote — to accommodate diverse preferences. 

We have also invested in employee well-being by offering financial wellbeing tools, continuous learning resources and mental health support. 

Additionally, our DEI program includes sessions on Intergenerational Inclusion, providing practical tips for effective cross-generational mentorship, collaboration and conflict resolution.

This multifaceted approach transforms generational differences from a potential challenge into a source of organizational opportunity. 

By recognizing and engaging generational differences, organizations can create a more inclusive and productive work environment.

Dr. Maria Knöbel
Medical Director, Medical Cert UK

Communication Workshops

It can be hard to manage a workforce with people from different generations because older generations like to talk to people in person and younger generations like to use technology. 

When a lot is at stake, like in healthcare, this can be hard to understand. 

This could be fixed by holding workshops on communication that take into account how people of different ages like to talk to each other.

At these workshops, teams will also learn better ways to work together. The way people talk to each other can change when they work together, even if they are not in the same room. 

With this method, people can work together better, fault less, and take better care of patients. 

If people know about these differences, they can work together better and get more done.

Kevin Connor
Founder and CEO, Modern SBC

Empathy and Flexibility

One of the trickiest parts of my job is helping people from different generations actually connect when they communicate. 

I’m Kevin Connor, founder and CEO of The Modern SBC, and I’ve seen it firsthand.

For example, just last week I listened as one of our younger employees sent a Slack message, while a more seasoned team member waited for a phone call that never came. 

Moments like that can quickly lead to misunderstandings and frustration. 

At The Modern SBC, we tackle this by mixing old and new approaches: we show managers how to switch between tools, honor personal preferences, and really listen. 

With a bit of empathy and flexibility, we can bridge those gaps and thrive together.

Cathy Knepp
Head of Human Resources, Platform Accounting Group

Lessons in Work Life Balance

One challenge we face is differing views on work/life balance and what type of hours are needed in our industry (accounting), which historically has been thought of as very high demand and long hours. 

I continually remind managers to remember how they felt when they were starting out and that the younger generations are right – our lives should not only be our jobs. 

I think it’s important to make sure we are making the work interesting and engaging so people want to get the work done, while not expecting them to work long hours just for the sake of working long hours or as some sort of initiation into the industry. 

There’s a lot we can learn from each generation!

Misti Mukherjee
Attorney at Law, Extensio Law

Managing Employee Activism

Today’s workplaces employ five generations of workers. Diversity in individual lived experiences strengthens any organization, and to successfully lead, engage and retain a multigenerational workforce, leaders must listen, learn and adapt. 

One example is employee activism. 

Workforce activism is rising, as social media, geopolitical conflicts and online activist platforms are highlighting organizational action and inaction.  

Many employees in the Millennial generation believe that they can make a greater impact on the world than can their leaders, and they are ready to speak out and/or change jobs when their employers’ organizational stances do not reflect their values. 

How to respond? 

Find out what really matters to your employees: understand, be curious and be humble. Don’t ignore opposing views. Encourage respectful debate. 

When corporate strategies don’t align with employee expectations, explain the company’s position with clear, honest and direct communication. 

Responding to activism can feel challenging for some leaders, but ultimately the best answer is to listen to learn and understand.

Christine Ramos
Director, Client HR Services, CoAdvantage

Technology and Autonomy

Bridging the gap between Baby Boomers and Gen Z can be challenging in a lot of ways. But one of the most challenging differences would be their different perspectives on communication styles as well as work schedules/work life balances.

Baby Boomers may not understand why someone would not be working in an office 9-5 and not have multiple in-person meetings and phone calls. They would have a different mentality on being more loyal to a company and more competitive for the good of the company and not necessarily thinking of their own personal gain.

Gen Z and other younger generations have a greater sense and emphasis on work/life balance. They will expect flexibility in setting schedules, maybe prefer a hybrid situation. They don’t see the value add as much as a Baby Boomer in hands on/ face to face collaboration. 

They are also more used to a fast-paced environment and don’t want to take the time to have an actual conversation, but would rather text or IM their counterpart. They may prefer to be managed from a higher level, don’t want to be micromanaged, and have autonomy to make their decisions.

Baby Boomers would not be as familiar or comfortable with all of the technology and even social media aspects of communication. Gen Z can’t imagine not having technology at their fingertips in being able to get the job done.

Options to help with these challenges are for managers to really get to know their employees individually to determine their strengths and emphasize those and communicate in a way that fits their needs. 

Maybe even pair the older workers with the younger workers to learn from each other. 

Older workers have a wealth of knowledge and experience they can provide to the younger group. The Gen Z’s can help educate the older group on why/how technology makes things more efficient.

This is all being done with a common goal in mind to be successful individually with the goal of working together in making the company successful.

Shannon Alter
CEO, Leaders Exceed

Show-Not-Tell Mindset

When it comes to leading a multigenerational workforce, embracing clear communication and a “show-not-tell” mindset are key. 

Leaders at every level today often experience meetings and other business conversations as almost completely transactional. Communication comes across as vague or fuzzy. The effect is impersonal, largely because we are “telling” people what to do. 

Context is key when we’re considering how to communicate more clearly. 

Sometimes we’re going too quickly, or we don’t want to bother other leaders. What often happens is that we leave out crucial information or even tidbits that will help that leader understand the issue, make a decision or move forward.

We think this will improve productivity but it isn’t always effective because people simply tune out or don’t figure it out. 

Instead, leaders can reverse their mindsets by “showing” their teams the path they want them to follow- demonstrating clear, timely, and responsive communication really does make a difference.

Jason Hishmeh
Co-Founder, Varyence

Acknowledgement and Understanding

Managing a multigenerational workforce can present challenges, particularly when communication styles are in conflict. I have observed that something as straightforward as a preference for Slack over email—or the reverse—can lead to frustration. 

One method we suggest is promoting “communication agility.” 

Conducting workshops to assist employees in comprehending generational differences and adjusting their approaches accordingly.

Additionally, we have adopted tools such as Microsoft Teams, which provide a balance between real-time conversations and more formal updates. 

When individuals feel acknowledged and understood, collaboration flourishes. 

It is not solely about bridging divides—it is about cultivating a team in which everyone’s strengths are highlighted, regardless of their generation.

Reskilling to Combine Thoughts and Approaches

Rose Fass
Co-Founder, fassforward Consulting Group

Reskilling is an important tool when managing and engaging a multigenerational workforce.

This can be achieved through ongoing education, whether formal or informal, such as attending workshops, enrolling in online courses, or engaging in cross-generational mentoring within the company. 

Organizations can support this by providing access to training programs tailored to all different career stages. Reskilling will not only help your organization keep pace with technological advances but it will also foster a culture of mutual respect and learning where every employee feels valued and empowered.

I recently turned 75 but at my firm I often find myself collaborating with our head of partnerships, who is in her 40s, and our head of marketing, who is in her 30s. 

By combining our thoughts and approaches—pushing each other to think differently and drawing on past experiences—we elevate one another, and the company as a whole.

The HR Spotlight team thanks these industry leaders for offering their expertise and experience and sharing these insights.

Do you wish to contribute to the next HR Spotlight article? Or is there an insight or idea you’d like to share with readers across the globe?

Write to us at connect@HRSpotlight.com, and our team will help you share your insights.

Recent Posts

Cultivating Psychologically Safe Workplaces in 2025 – by Dr Angie Montgomery

by

Cultivating Psychologically Safe Workplaces in 2025

Dr Angie Montgomery
CEO & Co-founder, InCheq

As businesses continue to evolve in 2025, fostering workplaces where employees feel safe to express themselves, share ideas, and take risks without fear of judgment or punishment is more important than ever before. Psychological safety, a concept gaining increasing attention, lies at the heart of organisational success, employee wellbeing, and innovation.

This article explores the concept of psychological safety, its impact on neurobiology, and the strategies employers can adopt to create environments that not only prevent harm but also promote thriving workplaces.

What Is Psychological Safety?

The term psychological safety has become a buzzword in workplace discussions over the past few years. Yet, there remains confusion about what it truly means and why it is crucial in professional settings.

Coined by Harvard Professor Amy Edmondson, psychological safety refers to the perception that the workplace is an environment where one can voice their ideas, admit mistakes, and take risks without fear of ridicule, punishment, or humiliation.

It’s not about being nice all the time or cruising at work; rather, it’s about fostering trust and openness to achieve the best outcomes.

In a psychologically safe work culture, employees are comfortable asking questions, offering new ideas, and acknowledging errors. These behaviours are essential for learning, innovation, and adaptability. Curiosity and creativity, which are key drivers of progress, thrive in an environment where fear of failure does not inhibit new ideas. Without psychological safety, teamwork becomes a struggle, and opportunities for growth are lost.

The Neurobiology of Safe vs. Unsafe Work Environments

The Stress Response in Unsafe Environments

To truly understand the importance of psychological safety at work, we can delve into its impact on our neurobiology. The human stress response (commonly referred to as the “fight, flight, or freeze” response) is a critical starting point.

When people perceive a threat, their bodies activate this survival mechanism, triggering a cascade of physical and mental changes. Symptoms such as increased heart rate, muscle tension, and rapid breathing are well-known. These changes prepare the body to either confront the threat or escape from it.

However, stress impacts more than just the body. It fundamentally alters brain processing. High levels of stress hormones like cortisol divert blood flow away from the prefrontal cortex (the brain’s rational thinking center) to the brainstem (the survival center). As a result, essential functions like working memory, attention, behavioural regulation, and perspective-taking are impaired. Instead, hypervigilance, defensiveness, and impulsivity take over.

Employees who feel under threat, whether from criticism, exclusion, or humiliation, are less likely to collaborate effectively or share ideas. Instead, self-preservation becomes the priority, to the detriment of productivity.

The Brain in Safe Environments

In contrast, psychologically safe workplaces foster a sense of trust and security, allowing employees to remain in a calm, focused state. Without the constant activation of the stress response, workers can access higher-order cognitive functions critical for creativity, problem-solving, and decision-making.

Moreover, safe environments encourage the release of neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine, which enhance emotional resilience, motivation, and wellbeing.

Teams operating in such conditions are more likely to:

– Collaborate openly and effectively.

– Share innovative ideas without fear of rejection.

– Provide and accept constructive feedback.

– Learn from mistakes and adapt to challenges.

In short, a psychologically safe workplace is not just a “nice to have”. It’s a competitive advantage that drives organisational success.

Strategies for Cultivating Psychological Safety

Creating a psychologically safe workplace requires intentional effort at both the team and organisational levels. Leaders play a crucial role in setting the tone and fostering a culture of openness and respect. Here are key strategies to enhance psychological safety:

Set a Tone of Respect and Appreciation
Interpersonal communication is a cornerstone of psychological safety. Leaders who model respectful interactions will encourage the same among team members. This looks like:

– Avoiding dismissive or belittling language.

– Respecting diverse perspectives and experiences.

– Encouraging inclusive conversations that value every voice.

Create Opportunities for Feedback and Collaboration

Regular opportunities for employees to share their ideas, voice concerns, and ask questions build trust and openness. Consider:

– Implementing structured feedback forums, such as team brainstorming or retrospectives. 

– Encouraging collaborative decision-making processes.

– Ensuring that all employees feel heard and valued.

Model Vulnerability

Leaders who admit their mistakes and seek feedback set the stage for others to do the same. Vulnerability fosters trust and demonstrates that it’s safe to take risks and learn from errors.

Reinforce a Growth Mindset

Cultivate a culture that values learning and development. Encourage employees to embrace challenges as opportunities to grow by:

– Providing access to coaching, mentoring, and professional development programs.

– Recognising and celebrating efforts to learn and improve.

– Normalising constructive feedback as part of growth.

Recognise and Reward Contributions

Acknowledging employees’ efforts and achievements reinforces a sense of value and belonging. Recognition can be formal, such as awards or bonuses, or informal, such as verbal praise during meetings. Both forms contribute to psychological safety by affirming that employees’ contributions matter.

The Case for Psychological Safety in 2025

The modern workplace demands adaptability, innovation, and resilience. Organisations that prioritise psychological safety are better equipped to meet these challenges head-on. In an era marked by rapid change and increasing complexity, businesses must create environments where employees feel empowered to bring their whole selves to work.

The benefits of psychological safety extend beyond individual well-being. Teams that feel safe are more collaborative, innovative, and productive. They are also more likely to retain top talent, as employees gravitate toward workplaces that prioritise respect and inclusion.

For employers, investing in psychological safety is not just a moral imperative but a strategic one. By fostering cultures of trust and openness, businesses can unlock the full potential of their workforce, driving sustained success in 2025 and beyond.

About the Author

Dr Angie Montgomery is the co-founder and CEO of InCheq, a registered Health Psychologist and Workplace Psychological Health and Safety expert.

Angie bridges the gap between mental illness prevention, workplace mental health and Work, Health and Safety legislation to create meaningful and impactful change for people and organisations.

She is passionate about the role of data to inform the development of strategic initiatives, formulating best practice approaches, and the importance of contributing to knowledge and research.

Angie believes that data and technology has the potential to assist us in improving the mental health of workers, at scale.

Do you wish to contribute to the next HR Spotlight article? Or is there an insight or idea you’d like to share with readers across the globe?

Write to us at connect@HRSpotlight.com, and our team will help you share your insights.

Recent Posts

From Silence to Support: Proactively Addressing the 15% Gap in Workplace Mental Health

by

From Silence to Support: Proactively Addressing the 15% Gap in Workplace Mental Health

Mental well-being is no longer a peripheral concern in the workplace; it’s a fundamental aspect of a healthy and productive organization. 

Yet, a sobering reality persists: a mere 15% of workers feel comfortable discussing mental health at work. This highlights a critical gap between the need for support and the perceived safety to seek it. 

To explore how organizations can bridge this gap, we posed to our HR Spotlight community of business leaders and HR experts the crucial question of how to foster a workplace culture where employees feel safe and supported in addressing their mental well-being.

The responses we gathered offer a wealth of practical advice on cultivating a workplace that prioritizes mental health, showcasing the innovative approaches leaders are taking to create truly supportive environments.

Read on!

Lawrence Guyot
President, ETTE

Safe Spaces for Dialog

To foster a supportive workplace culture around mental health, I draw on my experience in cybersecurity and IT management to establish environments that prioritize security and trust. 

At ETTE, we emphasize creating safe spaces for dialog, using secure communication platforms where employees can discuss sensitive issues without fear of data leaks or judgment.

We’ve implemented the CIA Triad approach-not just for cybersecurity but as a metaphor for workplace wellness. 

Confidentiality ensures that discussions about mental health remain private, integrity underscores the importance of a supportive and honest environment, and availability means providing resources and support when needed.

I’ve also witnessed the effectiveness of integrating IT solutions that encourage a balanced work-life dynamic, like automated accessibility tools to reduce workloads. 

By reducing stress through technology optimization, employees feel more supported and have the time to focus on their well-being. 

These strategies help build a culture where mental health dialogs are natural and encouraged.

John Gluch
Owner, Gluch Group San Diego

Conversations and Partnerships

As a real estate business owner managing teams across multiple offices, I understand the importance of creating an environment where employees feel supported in addressing their mental well-being. 

We encourage open dialogue by regularly checking in with team members and normalizing conversations about mental health. Our team has access to flexible schedules, which helps them manage work-life balance more effectively. 

Additionally, we’ve partnered with resources like an employee assistance program to provide access to counseling and support.

I lead by example, openly sharing how I prioritize self-care and manage stress. 

By fostering a culture of transparency, compassion, and understanding, we’ve built an environment where team members feel safe and empowered to seek help or discuss challenges without stigma. 

This focus not only supports their well-being but also strengthens team morale and productivity.

Dr. Maria Knöbel
Medical Director, Medical Cert UK

Check-Ins and Culture

Our HR department has set up private mental health check-ins with trained professionals so that workers can talk about their health in a safe environment. 

In here, people can put their mental health first without thinking about what other people will think if they do this and go to regular classes and programs that teach them more about mental health. 

Likewise, they can also control their stress and choose their own hours, which helps them keep work and home life in order and avoid burning out. 

Supporting a culture of kindness, understanding, and help at work will help make it a place where people feel valued and free to ask for help when they need it.

We care even more about mental health very much, so we have teamed up with local mental health groups to give our employees more tools and help. 

We want to keep improving our mental health services, so we also ask our staff to talk to us and let us know what they think. 

Everyone will be healthier, happier, and more productive if we put mental health first and make the workplace a helpful place to be.

Andrew Higashi
Co-founder & CEO, ChangeEngine

Easy Communication

Creating a culture where employees feel safe discussing mental health starts with addressing the means of communication that they prefer for these types of conversations. 

A recent ChangeEngine survey revealed that while 69% of remote and hybrid leaders feel at ease using live video for sensitive discussions, only 53% of employees feel the same. Even more striking, 20% of employees reported they never feel comfortable using this method, compared to just 8% of leaders. 

Our HR team bridges this divide by prioritizing trust and accessibility. We provide training for managers to approach sensitive conversations empathetically, knowing one size doesn’t fit all. 

Whether it’s via anonymous feedback, check-ins over the phone, or through internal communication software, we’re meeting employees where they are and where they prefer to have those types of conversations. 

By pairing open communication from leadership with flexible support systems, we’re normalizing mental health discussions across all levels of our organization. Because no one should feel like they have to struggle alone.

Paul E. Wolfe
Advisor, Club Req

Taking the Lead

Creating a workplace culture where employees feel safe discussing mental health starts with leadership setting the tone. HR teams can foster this culture by implementing the following strategies:

Normalize Conversations: Encourage leaders to openly discuss mental health, share resources, and model vulnerability. When leaders demonstrate empathy, employees feel more comfortable speaking up.

Provide Training: Offer managers training on recognizing signs of mental health challenges and responding with compassion and confidentiality.

Enhance Benefits: Provide access to Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs), mental health days, and comprehensive healthcare coverage that includes mental health services.

Create Safe Spaces: Establish forums, support groups, or anonymous feedback channels where employees can share concerns without fear of judgment.

By prioritizing empathy, education, and resources, HR can build a supportive environment where mental well-being is not just addressed but actively championed. This fosters trust, loyalty, and a healthier, more engaged workforce.

Shenella Karunaratne
Director of Operations, Online MFT Programs

Open and Frequent Discussions

Our HR team is equipped with many different mental health resources. If someone goes to them needing to talk about their mental health or get help, talking to our HR staff isn’t just talking into a void. They listen and they help in whatever way you need. 

Also, as we are in the mental health industry, we naturally have discussions on the topic regularly. 

This is intentional on behalf of the leadership team. The more you talk about it, the more normalized those discussions become. 

It’s all about letting people know that there are only positive outcomes when you have the bravery to talk about it.

Archie Payne
President, CalTek Staffing

Resources and EAPs

As we are all aware, you can’t necessarily count on employees to  tell you when they’re struggling with their mental health. 

Even if you have a fairly open and supportive workplace, there is still a significant stigma in the broader business landscape regarding mental health, and many professionals still feel like they could put their career progress at risk if they discuss these challenges with their employers. 

Because of this, I find it’s important to be proactive and provide resources that they can utilize without feeling like they’re “outing themselves”, or like they need to discuss their mental health at work if they don’t feel comfortable doing so.

At minimum, this should start by choosing an employee health insurance package that covers mental health care in addition to physical health services. 

Another great option is to offer EAPs that give your employees access to counseling services or wellness workshops. 

Finally, make sure the managers in your organization are trained to spot the signs of issues like burnout, anxiety, and depression, and strategies to address or respond to these issues if they note them on their team. 

Employees who don’t feel comfortable discussing their mental health struggles with HR may be more willing to do so with a manager they trust to be empathetic and supportive.

Mike Fretto
Creative Director, Neighbor

Support Without the Need to Talk

The balance we’ve chosen to strike around mental health is that we don’t need people to talk about it at work, but we do need them to take care of themselves using the resources (like health insurance and paid time off) that we provide. 

One of the lines I find myself using a lot is “I don’t care how you use your sick days. If you think you need a day off, then you need a day off. End of story.” 

By reassuring people that I’m not going to scrutinize their decisions, I give them the freedom to get the help they need.

Jordan Anthony
Head of Nutrition, Ahara

Science-Backed Lifestyle

This is one reason I’m glad to work in a health-related space. 

Our entire philosophy is built around providing science-backed lifestyle plans to help our customers reach their goals, and we apply that same philosophy to our HR policies. 

We strongly encourage our team to not just take care of their mental health with therapy and medication, but to focus on eating a good diet, getting plenty of exercise, and sleeping well. 

Our self-care chat on Slack is one of our most popular employee “downtime” activities.

David Tang
CEO, Flevy

Policies and Practices

HR teams can embed mental health policies in the organization, like accommodations for stress-related disorders and burnout prevention programs. 

– Create anonymous reporting systems for workplace stressors such as overwork or toxic behavior

– Review and update these policies often based on the needs of employees. 

– Pay for and recognize mental health work done in teams. 

– Schedule wellness events like yoga or peer support groups after work. 

If mental health is integrated into the organizational culture, HR can show employees that it takes care of people and fosters a healthier, more productive workforce.

The HR Spotlight team thanks these industry leaders for offering their expertise and experience and sharing these insights. 

While all these insights resonate with the needs of today’s workforce, we advise you to carefully develop the ones you think work best for your work environment and move forward accordingly. Of course, we also advise that you do so under the guiding hand of a mental health professional.

Do you wish to contribute to the next HR Spotlight article? Or is there an insight or idea you’d like to share with readers across the globe?

Write to us at connect@HRSpotlight.com, and our team will help you share your insights.

Recent Posts

HR’s Next Frontier: Hopes for a Revolutionary 2025

by

HR's Next Frontier: Hopes for a Revolutionary 2025

What if eventful thoughts, calculated predictions, and realistic hopes could shape the future of technology? 

We asked this question, in essence, to a panel of influential tech leaders, focusing their vision on the year 2025. 

Their challenge: to identify or predict the single most impactful innovation, shift, transformation, or correction they’d like to see in the tech sector, and explain its significance. From revolutionizing AI to fostering a more inclusive tech ecosystem, their answers offer a compelling glimpse into the priorities driving the industry forward. 

Get ready to explore the transformative potential of 2025 through the eyes of those shaping its technological landscape.

Read on!

Matt Duffy
President, Carex Consulting Group

Dominant HR to Marketing Functions

It’s a unique and largely unpopular opinion… but here is one thought: I’d like to see Talent Acquisition shift from a dominant HR function to a Marketing function. 

Here’s why: Recruiting (not the tactical aspects of hiring) is inherently a marketing function, not HR. 

While it encompasses the human element, the function of recruiting is mostly centered around messaging, branding, market segmentation, consumer engagement, and of course follow up. These attributes are historically best designed, led, and executive by Marketing strategies. 

Throughout my career I have observed how these skills are rooted in Marketing – not to mention technology and strategy. 

Additionally, most people who obtain an HR Degree don’t go into HR to become recruiters – recruiting isn’t generally a destination of choice for many HR practitioners (which should tell us something).

It’s a skill set that is often underappreciated and developed in many Corporate HR departments. I believe our industry can stand to benefit from this suggested approach.

Matt Cholerton
Founder, Hito Labs

AI for Transparency

I’d like to see AI used comfortably to give applicants information about a company and role, and transparency about their application.

There is tons of wasted time and goodwill sharing info and aligning on a role. 

If candidates could have access to the info they needed quicker, it would make everyone happier.

Jason Lee
Chief, Chime Enterprise

More Than a Paycheck

We are inundated with opportunities to earn rewards in our everyday lives, from rewards for buying clothes on a retail website, to Starbucks stars for buying coffee and a scone, to flying to a vacation resort using your favorite airline miles credit card. 

No purchase is deemed too small to make us feel that we are valued and these merchants want us to come back for more.

People spend a lot of time at work, so why not let employees earn rewards too for their labors? 

This will become mainstream in 2025. 

Mark my words, you have to give employees more than a paycheck to make them feel valued.

Jean Chen
COO & CHRO, Mondressy

AI in Onboarding

In 2025, I’d love to see a major shift towards using AI to enhance the employee onboarding process. 

Imagine this: instead of generic checklists and manuals, you have AI-driven platforms creating personalized onboarding experiences for each new hire. These platforms could tailor content based on a person’s role, skill level, and interests, making the transition smoother and quicker. 

A practical tip here is to incorporate interactive, AI-generated simulations that allow new employees to navigate their roles in a virtual setting. This not only builds confidence but also boosts engagement from day one. 

Such a transformation can make onboarding less daunting and more exciting, helping new team members immediately feel like valuable parts of the organization. 

Plus, it allows HR teams to focus more on fostering a welcoming culture, rather than handling administrative details.

Gavin McMahon
Founder and Co-CEO, fassforward

A Product Mindset

In 2025, HR needs a product mindset, not a policy mindset. 

Static policies and annual performance reviews are HR relics. It’s time for HR to think like a product team: agile, data-driven, and focused on building a better employee experience. 

Great product teams live and die by user adoption, improving based on user feedback. HR should be no different. 

Employees are the “customers” of HR’s “products,” like onboarding, career development, and company culture. Success means refining these “products” continuously—not just enforcing compliance but creating an environment where employees thrive and businesses grow. 

HR with a product mindset stays ahead of the curve by being adaptive, indispensable, and designed for lasting impact.

David Frost
CCO-CEO, fassforward

Coaching for All

I believe the big opportunity for HR in 2025 is to make coaching accessible to all. 

Historically, executive coaching has been primarily focused on senior or high-potential leaders. AI is breaking down this barrier. 

At fassforward, we’re developing an AI-driven platform to scale our coaching tools while maintaining their depth and efficacy. This platform makes coaching available to our clients at all levels on their own time—whether they’re individual contributors, rising stars or senior leaders.

The potential impact is transformative. Companies can now:

  • Nurture talent earlier. Leadership development can begin long before someone takes on formal managerial responsibilities.
  • Build capabilities at scale. Employees can access tools and insights that improve their communication, creativity, and decision-making abilities.
  • Create a culture of continuous growth. Coaching no longer needs to be an occasional investment; it can become part of an organization’s everyday rhythm.
  • AI empowers HR organizations to develop future leaders proactively, creating a ripple effect of growth across teams and business units.

Paige Arnof-Fenn
Founder & CEO, Mavens & Moguls

Better Professionalism

I started a global branding and digital marketing firm 23 years ago and I have interviewed candidates throughout my career from when I worked in large Fortune 500 companies to early stage startups and now as an entrepreneur.

My vote is for better manners and overall professionalism on both sides of the equation. Ideally neither the candidate nor the hiring manager or recruiter would be guilty of ghosting.

A lot of time and energy can be wasted when there is a lack of  transparency or an element of gamesmanship so just be a straight shooter for best results.

Silvia Angeloro
Executive Coach, Editor in Chief, Resume Mentor

Rethink Mental Wellness

In 2025, I hope HR will dramatically rethink mental wellness as a key organizational strategy, rather than a checkbox exercise. 

My deepest wish is that we will eventually treat emotional resilience as seriously as we do financial performance. I’ve seen far too many smart people silently burn out, their potential squandered by corporate environments that demand constant output without genuine human empathy.

The revolution I want is not the addition of another wellness program but rather a fundamental shift in how we conceive human capability and emotional sustainability.

My objective is simple but profound: to create working cultures in which professionals may breathe, be honestly vulnerable, and admit their human shortcomings without fear of professional repercussions. 

When we mainstream conversations about mental boundaries and emotional wellness, we not only retain talent but also release tremendous human potential.

Justin Clifford
CEO, Bereave

A Genuine Commitment to Address Bereavement

Recognition and understanding that bereavement leave is about more than a few days off, a dusty policy, and an 800 number for a few free counseling sessions. 

These random acts of bereavement support won’t cut it in 2025 and beyond. 

Grief related productivity loss in the US is reported to be >$100bn/year. 51% of people who suffer a close loss leave a company within a year. There are real business issues because these are real human issues. 

Bereavement at work is about mental health support. It’s about equity and inclusion. It’s about culture. And says a ton about who a company really is. 

Companies should be thinking about manager and HR training, putting frameworks in place, and having a plan to support employees in their moments of greatest need.

Natania Malin Gazek
Founder & Principal, Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion Strategy, NMGazek

Pay Transparency

I’m ready to witness a transformation in how we talk about pay transparency. Too often it’s misunderstood as a burdensome task that will brew friction between staff. 

In fact, when done strategically (read: in thoughtful phases, with clear communication and managerial support), it’s one of the most powerful tools available for recruiting and retaining more demographically diverse teams, helping staff across underrepresented and marginalized identity groups feel a greater sense of inclusion and belonging at work. 

Plus, it boosts staff morale across the board significantly. Legislation requiring salary bands to be posted in job listings has paved the way for this. 

The next steps are for leaders to publish salary bands and their associated competencies internally so that staff better understand what is expected of them at their level and what skills they’d need to develop to grow in their role or earn promotions. 

Often leaders think staff understand this already, but moving towards increased pay transparency is consistently what actually creates alignment and eases staff frustrations.

The HR Spotlight team thanks these industry leaders for offering their expertise and experience and sharing their insights.

Do you wish to contribute to the next HR Spotlight article? Or is there an insight or idea you’d like to share with readers across the globe?

Write to us at connect@HRspotlight.com, and our team will help you share your insights.

Recent Posts