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Employee Resistance: HR Policies Suffering Push Back

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Employee Resistance: HR Policies Suffering Push Back

Every company has that one policy that makes even the best employees groan: daily equipment inspections, return-to-office mandates, mandatory progress check-ins, non-competes, documentation rules, report deadlines, phone bans, or transparent promotion scorecards.

In this HR Spotlight roundup, nine founders and CEOs who’ve actually enforced these “hated” rules reveal the surprising truth: the pushback almost never comes from laziness—it comes from feeling micromanaged, distrusted, or robbed of something they value deeply (time, autonomy, recognition, privacy).

More importantly, they share exactly how they flipped the script: by showing the personal upside (fewer breakdowns, faster promotions, no 2 a.m. emergencies, protected paychecks) instead of preaching compliance.

The result? Resistance didn’t just quiet down—it vanished.

Here are the raw stories and tactics that turned policy villains into team heroes.

Read on!

Jeffrey J. Miller
President & CEO, Kelbe Brothers Equipment

I run a fourth-generation equipment company in Wisconsin, so I’ve dealt with plenty of policy resistance over the years.

The one that gets the most pushback? Mandatory daily walkaround inspections before operating any equipment.

Operators hate it because they see it as paperwork that slows them down when they could be working.

They think they know their machine well enough to skip the checklist.

But we tracked downtime costs and found that crews doing daily inspections caught small issues early–saving an average of $3,200 per incident versus emergency repairs.

When a hydraulic leak gets spotted during a walkaround instead of mid-job, that’s the difference between a $150 seal replacement and a $4,000 pump failure plus lost rental revenue.

I addressed it by showing operators the actual repair invoices from machines that skipped inspections versus those that didn’t.
I also pointed out that they’re the ones stuck waiting when a machine goes down unexpectedly, losing productive hours.

Once they saw it wasn’t about compliance but about avoiding sitting around while a tech drives out for an emergency call, resistance dropped significantly.

The key was making it about their time and their day, not company policy. Nobody wants to be the operator who caused a three-day shutdown because they didn’t spend two minutes checking fluid levels.

Two Minutes Saves $3,200 Breakdowns

Charles Blechman
Founder & Coach, Manhattan Coaching Associates

I’ve coached dozens of tech leaders through organizational change, and the policy that creates the most friction is return-to-office mandates.

I watched one Director nearly quit over it–not because he hated the office, but because the policy ignored why remote work mattered to him: picking his kids up from school and being present during their formative years.

The resistance isn’t really about the policy itself.

It’s about what the policy steps on–autonomy, trust, family time, work-life integration.

When I work with leaders implementing these changes, I ask them to get curious instead of defensive: What values are being threatened here? What’s the fear underneath the pushback?

One client shifted their approach by asking employees directly: “What would you need to feel supported if we move to hybrid?”

They found people weren’t against collaboration–they were against losing flexibility without gaining anything meaningful in return.

So they redesigned the policy around team anchoring days and core hours, giving people choice within structure.

The fix isn’t better communication of the policy.
It’s co-creating a solution that honors what people actually care about.
When employees feel heard and see their values reflected in the outcome, resistance drops dramatically.

RTO Died When They Co-Created Hybrid

Lisa Martinez
Founder, TX Cash Home Buyers

Honestly, non-competes are our biggest hurdle, especially with a small team where people want freedom to move on.

I stopped just handing them the contract.

Now I explain exactly what we’re protecting, like our client list or specific methods.

If someone has a good reason, like moving across the country, we’ll adjust it.

People are way more receptive when they understand the business reason behind the rule.

Non-Competes Work When Explained Honestly

Joseph Depena
Owner, VP Fitness

I run a boutique fitness franchise in Providence, and the policy that gets the most pushback is mandatory progress tracking and check-ins.

Members sign up excited to train, but when we require regular weigh-ins, body measurements, or goal reviews, some push back hard–they see it as intrusive or feel judged.

Here’s what changed the resistance: I stopped framing it as accountability and started showing members their own data trends over 8-12 weeks.

When someone sees their strength gains climbing even though the scale hasn’t moved, or their body fat percentage dropping while weight stays flat, suddenly tracking becomes their favorite thing.

One member was ready to quit after “no progress” until we pulled up her metrics–she’d gained 4 pounds of muscle and lost 2 inches off her waist.

The trick is making the data work for them, not against them.

I tell my trainers to celebrate non-scale victories, first–better sleep, more energy, clothes fitting differently–then layer in the numbers as proof of what they already feel.

Once people realize tracking protects them from quitting prematurely, resistance drops to almost zero.

Hated Weigh-Ins Became Victory Proof

Divyansh Agarwal
Founder, Webyansh

I run a web design agency, not an HR department, but I’ve watched clients struggle with one surprising policy pushback: requiring teams to document their work processes.

Developers and designers especially hate it because it feels like busywork that slows them down.

When we rebuilt Hopstack’s website, their team initially resisted documenting the CMS transfer process–they just wanted to move fast.

But we insisted on creating a simple handover doc, and it saved them weeks when they needed to train new team members six months later.

The 99.8% order accuracy they maintain now partly comes from that documentation culture we helped establish.

The fix isn’t selling it as “policy compliance”–it’s showing immediate personal benefit. For Hopstack, we framed it as “so you don’t get 2am calls about broken features you built months ago.

When people see documentation as protecting their own time rather than feeding corporate bureaucracy, resistance drops fast.

I’ve noticed this same pattern across healthcare and SaaS clients–the policy itself isn’t the problem, it’s that nobody explains what’s in it for the individual employee.

Make it selfish, make it practical, and suddenly compliance isn’t a fight anymore.

Docs Sold as “No 2am Calls”

Joshua McAfee
CEO & Founder, McAfee Institute

I’ve trained thousands of investigators and law enforcement professionals, and the policy that gets the most resistance? Mandatory reporting documentation requirements.

Investigators especially hate being told they need to submit detailed reports within 24-48 hours of an incident when they’re in the middle of active casework.

When I built Amazon’s Loss Prevention program from scratch, we tracked what happened when investigators delayed their reports.

Cases that got documented within 24 hours had a 76% prosecution success rate.

Cases documented after 72 hours? That dropped to 41%.

The resistance vanished when investigators realized they were the ones stuck in court explaining gaps in their own timeline months later.

I addressed it by showing actual court transcripts where delayed documentation killed cases they’d worked for weeks.

Then I implemented voice-to-text report templates that cut documentation time from 45 minutes to under 10.

Suddenly it wasn’t about compliance–it was about not watching their own hard work get dismissed because they couldn’t remember exact details three months later during testimony.

The shift happened when people saw that the policy protects their credibility, not just the organization’s liability.

Nobody wants to be the investigator who loses a case on the stand because their notes were too vague to defend.

24-Hour Reports Saved 76% of Cases

Christina Imes
Founder, Tru Integrative Wellness

I run two integrative wellness clinics, so I’m managing clinical teams across multiple locations–and the biggest pushback I consistently see is around our strict patient confidentiality and personal phone policies.

Staff want to snap before/after photos or share success stories on their personal social media, but in medical aesthetics and hormone therapy, that’s a legal and ethical minefield.

When I took over operations at Tru Integrative Wellness in 2022, we had team members who didn’t understand why they couldn’t post a great GAINSWave result or weight loss change–even with verbal permission.

The resistance was intense because they genuinely wanted to celebrate patient wins and felt the policy killed their ability to market our work.

What actually worked was giving them an approved outlet.

We created a formal content process where patients could consent through proper medical release forms, and then our marketing team handled all posts through official channels.

I also showed staff the actual dollar cost of a HIPAA violation ($50,000+ per incident) during onboarding.

Once they saw we weren’t blocking their enthusiasm but protecting everyone’s livelihood, compliance jumped to near-100%.

The trick is replacing what you’re taking away. Don’t just say “no personal posts”–give them a compliant way to share wins and explain the real financial risk in concrete numbers they’ll remember.

$50K Fines Killed Personal Patient Pics

Matthew Pfau
Curriculum Developer & Educator, Paralegal Institute

I run a personal injury law firm and hire a lot of paralegals, so I’ve seen this from the employer side. The policy that gets the most pushback? Structured career advancement criteria.

When I implemented clear promotion requirements with specific skill benchmarks, my experienced paralegals initially resisted because it felt like being “graded” again after years of proven work.

The resistance came from a place I didn’t expect–they thought documenting their skills somehow diminished the value of their experience.

One senior paralegal told me straight up: “I’ve been doing this for 8 years, why do I need to check boxes now?”

What changed everything was when I showed them the other side.

I had been promoting people inconsistently based on gut feeling, and it meant some high performers were getting overlooked while others advanced just because they were more vocal.

When I laid out the transparent criteria, three paralegals who’d been stuck at the same level for years suddenly had a clear path forward–and two of them got promoted within six months.

Now when I hire, I show candidates the advancement scorecard on day one. The pushback disappeared because people realized it protects them more than it restricts them.

Without clear criteria, career growth is just a popularity contest.

Scorecards Ended Promotion Popularity Contests

Cyrus Partow
CEO, ShipTheDeal

My remote team used to stumble through handoffs. We were basically working on different planets.

So we tried setting two hours every day when everyone had to be online. It fixed everything.

Handoffs went from a chain of emails to a quick chat.

My advice is to not frame it as a management thing. Just say it’s to make their day easier, then stick to it.

Short, consistent, and it helps everyone.

Two Overlap Hours Fixed Handoff Hell

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Employee Recognition Missing the Mark? The Feedback Rituals That Actually Matter

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Employee Recognition Missing the Mark? The Feedback Rituals That Actually Matter

Most leaders think “recognition” means an annual bonus or Employee of the Month plaque.

The founders and CEOs in this HR Spotlight roundup disagree—loudly.

They’ve learned that making people feel truly seen has almost nothing to do with budget and everything to do with tiny, deliberate daily habits: a Fleetwood Mac playlist for the massage therapist, a handwritten note after a tough install, a 3-minute “Problem of the Day” huddle, or simply repeating back what someone just accomplished before moving on.

These aren’t grand gestures; they’re micro-moments of noticing the human behind the role.

And the results—higher engagement, lower turnover, teams that actually celebrate each other—prove that feeling seen isn’t a nice-to-have.

It’s the new competitive advantage. Here are the exact rituals and gestures that actually work.

Read on!

Damien Zouaoui
Co-Founder, Oakwell Beer Spa

The team began creating customized Spotify playlists for each member as a basic initiative.

The sound of Fleetwood Mac music from the massage therapist made me create an unexpected playlist for her work shift.

She became delighted when she listened to the music.

The team now takes turns selecting music and snacks and aromatherapy oils that match individual preferences of staff members.

The team members feel valued through these tiny gestures which demonstrate our awareness of their presence.

The team organizes brief “cheers” sessions following every demanding work period.

The team uses kombucha breaks to share amusing guest stories while they recognize team members who handled challenging situations.

The relaxed atmosphere creates a sense of importance for team members beyond their job roles without any expectations.

The brief time spent together brings significant value to the team.

Fleetwood Mac Fixed Morale

Ben Southall
Co-Founder, Talked

The most effective practices are often the simplest and most consistent.

Regular weekly check-ins, both as a team and one-on-one, create space to talk about wins, challenges, and how someone is actually doing, not just what they are working on.

Celebrating small wins on Slack or in daily conversations can go a long way too.

Whether it is a kind word from a client or someone lending a hand, recognizing those everyday moments helps people feel appreciated when it really matters.

Structured recognition, like monthly shoutouts or celebrating milestones, can definitely be valuable and I would still recommend including them.

But these formal gestures often come too late or feel a bit disconnected from the reality of someone’s day-to-day experience.

I suggest balancing them with regular, informal feedback that shows you are genuinely paying attention.

Most importantly, make sure your recognition acknowledges the person, not just the work. Show that you see them as a whole person with a life outside of their role.

That kind of thoughtful, ongoing recognition can make a lasting impact and help employees feel connected and cared for.

Small Wins Beat Annual Awards

Seema Thakkar
President, Vogue Window Fashion

I’ve also found that regular, informal feedback works better than infrequent formal reviews.

During check ins on projects like automating shades for a luxury residence I focus on what went well and where someone can grow, always tying it back to how their skills improve the client experience.

This keeps employees visible and valued without creating stress or pressure.

Even small gestures make a big difference.

Praising someone for problem solving on a tricky curtain system or for thoughtful input during a design consultation communicates appreciation every day.

I sometimes follow up with a quick note or internal shout out, so recognition doesn’t just vanish it’s remembered.

Linking recognition to real client outcomes is also powerful.

Sharing how a team member’s work transformed a space like an office with automated, energy efficient shades helps employees see the real world impact of their efforts.

It makes their daily work feel meaningful in a tangible way.

Lastly, encouraging peer to peer recognition strengthens the culture.

When team members highlight each other’s contributions during installations or brainstorming sessions, it creates an environment where everyone feels noticed.

Consistent, authentic recognition boosts morale and engagement just like a beautifully installed window treatment can transform a room.

Praise the Install, Not the Invoice

Illustrious Espiritu
Marketing Director, Autostar Heavy Duty

For a long time, our recognition practices were a top-down approach.

I’d give a bonus or a team dinner, but it didn’t help employees on the front lines feel seen.

They were just a cog in a machine. We knew we had to find a way to build a positive culture.

The specific practices I’d recommend are a combination of a daily ritual and a sense of purpose.

The daily ritual is a “Problem of the Day” huddle.

We take a few minutes at the beginning of every day to share one problem that we are grateful to be solving for our customers.

This gives the team a sense of purpose beyond a paycheck.

The feedback ritual is a simple, old-school method that we call a “Shout-out of the Week.” Every person has to give a shout-out to a peer who helped them with a specific task.

This empowers every person on the team to recognize a peer. The daily gesture is to ask, “How can I help you?”

I learned that a person who feels seen is a person who is a partner.

The impact has been a massive increase in our team’s morale and their productivity.

Our team is no longer just a collection of people with a task. They are a collection of problem-solvers.

The biggest win is that we built a culture where people were constantly learning from each other.

My advice is that the best way to help employees “feel seen” is to give them a voice.

Daily Problems, Daily Purpose

Patrick Ono
Insurance Expert, Patrick Ono Agency

Helping employees feel truly seen starts with noticing the little things.

When someone goes above and beyond whether helping a client, improving a process, or supporting a teammate, taking a moment to acknowledge it makes a huge difference.

A handwritten note, a quick shoutout in a meeting, or even a private message saying I saw the work you put in, thank you shows that their efforts matter.

Regular check-ins are also key.

A quick weekly conversation about progress, challenges, or goals gives employees a chance to be heard and supported.

Feedback that focuses on specific actions rather than vague praise shows that you’re paying attention, and two way conversations let employees feel their opinions and ideas are valued too.

Small day to day gestures really add up.

Remembering birthdays or work anniversaries, celebrating personal wins, or even treating someone to coffee for consistent effort makes people feel acknowledged not just for what they do, but for who they are.

These moments build a culture where employees feel respected and appreciated.

I see parallels in how I work with clients.

When someone knows their insurance is tailored to their unique situation, they feel secure and confident.

The same principle applies with employees, When recognition is thoughtful and personal, it creates trust, engagement, and a sense of belonging.

Finally, sharing real stories about the impact someone’s work has made strengthens that connection.

Hearing how a project succeeded because of their contribution helps employees see the tangible difference they make, making recognition feel meaningful and lasting.

Handwritten Notes Beat Gift Cards

Yassien Youssef
Real Estate Investment & Development, Compass

Daily feedback rituals make a big difference. Short, focused check ins that go beyond generic praise give employees a chance to feel heard and understood.
For example, if someone navigates a complex situation successfully, taking a moment to highlight exactly what they did well shows that their skills and judgment are noticed.

Giving people space to share their ideas in meetings or one on one conversations also helps them feel included and valued.

Incorporating recognition into everyday routines reinforces a culture where contributions matter.

Celebrating small wins like resolving a zoning issue or finalizing a lease can be as simple as a verbal shout out during a team huddle or a mention in a newsletter.

Recognizing effort as well as results reminds people that every step they take counts, and in my experience in Boston’s luxury market, this kind of consistent acknowledgment builds loyalty and motivation.

Connecting recognition to bigger picture impact also helps employees feel seen.

Showing how someone’s work, whether improving a property’s appeal or strengthening client relationships advances broader goals makes their contributions feel meaningful.

Bringing these connections up in team meetings or one on one chats reinforces that their work truly matters. Finally, authenticity is key.

Remembering personal milestones, cultural touchpoints, or even preferences when offering praise shows you see them as more than just a role.

Celebrating both professional achievements and personal moments in thoughtful, intentional ways creates a sense of belonging and makes employees feel genuinely valued.

Daily Feedback > Yearly Review

Ben Rasmussen
Advisor, Email Guard

Employees feel truly seen when recognition is personal, consistent, and genuine.

A simple thank you in a team meeting for a specific contribution or a short note highlighting a job well done can make a huge difference.

It doesn’t have to be a big gesture; the key is that employees know their work is noticed and valued.

Regular feedback rituals help make this recognition a habit.

Quick weekly check-ins where employees can share wins and challenges give leaders the chance to notice contributions in real time.

Celebrating milestones, like finishing a project or reaching a personal goal, shows that growth and effort are just as important as results.

Everyday actions matter too.

Taking a moment to thank someone after they solve a tricky problem, or sharing their innovative ideas in an internal newsletter, reinforces that their work matters.

Combining public recognition with private appreciation ensures people feel respected without being put on the spot.

The most effective recognition is consistent and specific.

Vague praise doesn’t resonate, but pointing out exactly what someone did and why it mattered builds trust and motivation.

When employees see that their unique efforts are noticed regularly, it strengthens engagement and loyalty.

Specific Thanks, Every Single Time

Erin Ruddy
Owner, Winston-Salem Massage and Bodywork

Public recognition during team meetings is a powerful way to make employees feel valued for their contributions.

I’ve found that specifically calling out individuals who have gone above and beyond, like when a part-time team member handled extra administrative tasks during a busy promotional period, shows genuine appreciation.

Taking time to acknowledge these efforts in front of peers demonstrates that management notices the work being done, even during hectic times.

This simple practice helps maintain team engagement and prevents unintentional harm to morale when workloads are heavy.

Public Call-Outs Heal Heavy Workloads

Dr. Thomas W. Faulkner
Principal Consultant, Faulkner HR Solutions

Look, recognition doesn’t need to be elaborate. We just need to treat the people who work for us as people, not as titles in an org chart.

At the end of the day, employees aren’t begging for a pat on the back. They’re asking to be seen and being seen means more than “thanks for showing up.”

It means knowing the work they do has meaningful impact, not only to the organization but to you as their supervisor.

The best practices I push are simple: call out specific contributions in context, give feedback tied to outcomes, and make space in check-ins for employees to share what’s working or what’s blocking them.

Employees are so much more than just a headcount. If you see it, they will too.

Faulkner HR Solutions provides expert HR consulting, workforce development, and process improvement for small to mid-sized businesses and municipalities.

We specialize in compliance audits, employee relations, training programs, and performance management systems.

Through our Faulkner HR Academy, we offer practical, competency-based courses and certifications to help HR professionals and leaders build internal capacity and drive organizational growth.

Led by Dr. Thomas Faulkner, SPHR, we deliver tailored strategies that align people, processes, and purpose.

See the Human, Not the Headcount

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Unpopular HR Policies: Turning Pushback Into Progress

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Unpopular HR Policies: Turning Pushback Into Progress

What if the HR policy you’re defending with spreadsheets and compliance checklists is secretly the biggest threat to the culture you’re trying to protect?

Across industries, one uncomfortable pattern repeats: the rules designed to safeguard organizations often feel like handcuffs to the very people they’re meant to empower.

This HR Spotlight dares to ask the question most leaders avoid: are we enforcing policies—or are we enforcing distrust?

From mandatory reporting to bilingual mandates, from weekend response rules to personal goal-setting programs, seasoned leaders reveal the policies that ignite the fiercest pushback—and the surprisingly human fixes that flipped resistance into ownership.

Their stories prove one thing: when employees understand the “why,” see the win, and feel the respect, even the toughest policies become the glue that holds high-performing teams together.

In 2025’s war for talent, these lessons are pure gold.

Read on!

John Howley
Managing Partner, Howley Law Firm

After 30+ years in litigation, the policy that gets the hardest pushback is mandatory harassment reporting–especially when employees think they’re protecting a colleague by staying quiet.

I’ve seen these cases that should’ve been slam-dunks, because by the time people finally report, the evidence is stale and witnesses have scattered.

I had a case where a harassed nanny eventually won $1 million, but it took two years longer than it should have because her friends at the agency knew what was happening and said nothing.

They thought they were being loyal.

When we finally built the case, those same coworkers became crucial witnesses–but if they’d reported early, she could’ve been protected immediately and avoided months of hell.

What works is showing the math.

In my $80 million race discrimination case against Sodexho Marriott, the company’s own failure to enforce their reporting policy created a paper trail that made our job easier.

I tell HR: frame reporting as protecting coworkers, not snitching on them, because silence lets bad actors hurt more people.

When employees see that early reporting actually shortens investigations and gets faster resolutions, resistance drops fast.

Report Early, Protect Everyone

Lucas Simmons
CEO, Gener8 Media

I ran production teams at Gener8 Media and honestly? The biggest pushback wasn’t an HR policy–it was the creative approval process.

Directors and editors hated having clients review cuts at multiple stages, saying it “killed the creative vision” and added weeks to timelines.

The breaking point came during our Unseen Chains documentary about human trafficking.

One of my editors wanted full creative control until final delivery, but I insisted on showing rough cuts to Drive 4 Impact throughout.

He pushed back hard, saying it would compromise the artistry.

Then during a mid-production review, the nonprofit caught a factual error about trafficking statistics that would’ve destroyed our credibility if it made the final cut. That one catch saved the entire $180K project.

I started showing the team our client retention numbers–we had 87% repeat business specifically because clients felt involved in the process, not surprised at the end.

When crew members saw that their jobs existed because of this policy, not despite it, resistance dropped fast.

Now I frame client reviews as “insurance against expensive reshoots” and suddenly it’s not an annoying policy, it’s protecting everyone’s paycheck.

The shift happened when I stopped defending it as policy and started showing real money saved. Numbers change minds faster than principles.

Client Reviews Save Jobs

Jeff Bogue
President, Momentum Ministry Partners

Leading a 150+ person staff across eight campuses, the biggest pushback I’ve consistently seen is around scheduling flexibility–specifically when we implemented mandatory all-staff gatherings.

People want autonomy over their calendars, and asking ministry professionals to block out non-negotiable meeting times felt controlling to many.

What shifted the resistance was changing how we communicated the “why.”

Instead of announcing “mandatory staff meetings,” we reframed them as “team days” and showed our budget–we were investing $12,000 in bringing everyone together because we believed in them.

When people saw we were spending real money because we valued unity and development, attendance jumped from 70% to 94% within three months.

The real breakthrough came when I started sharing specific stories of what happened because we gathered.

A youth pastor met a finance team member at one of these events, which led to a conversation that solved a budget problem plaguing his department for months.

Staff started seeing these gatherings as networking gold rather than time theft.

My recommendation: stop defending the policy and start showcasing the tangible wins that come from it.

Collect three stories in the first 60 days of implementation where the policy directly solved a problem or created an opportunity. Resistance fades when people see proof, not principles.

Team Days Beat Mandatory Meetings

Seth Yingling
Owner, Yingling Builders

Hey, I run a custom home building company in West Central Illinois, and while I don’t deal with traditional HR policies, I’ve steered plenty of pushback on construction standards and building protocols--the parallels are pretty similar.

The biggest resistance I see is when people don’t understand why a rule exists.

When I introduced stricter quality checkpoints and required more frequent inspections with our builds, my team initially saw it as slowing them down.

But once I explained that these steps prevented costly callbacks and protected our reputation (which directly affected their job security), the pushback disappeared. People resist what they don’t understand.

My recommendation: involve your team in the conversation before rolling out the policy.

When we switched to Wausau Home Products in 2021, I didn’t just announce it–I showed the crew actual examples of how it made their work easier and reduced errors. That buy-in made all the difference.

Also, admit when something isn’t working and adjust.

We tried a new scheduling system last year that looked great on paper but created chaos on job sites. I scrapped it within two weeks.

Your credibility goes way up when people see you’re willing to listen and adapt rather than forcing something that clearly isn’t right.

Explain Why, Resistance Dies

D.J. Hearsey
Principal Agent, Select Insurance Group

I’ve built Select Insurance Group from the ground up with 12 locations across the Southeast, and the HR policy that creates the most friction? Mandatory bilingual capability requirements for customer-facing roles–especially in markets where we’re expanding.

When we moved into new territories in Georgia and the Carolinas, some existing staff pushed back hard on needing Spanish-speaking team members at every location.

They’d argue “this isn’t Miami” or question why we couldn’t just route calls elsewhere. The tension was real because it felt like their advancement opportunities were being limited.

What changed the conversation was showing them our Orlando retention numbers.

At our Florida offices where agents like Natalie Rivera and Diana Estrada handled both English and Spanish clients seamlessly, our customer lifetime value was 2.3x higher than English-only locations.

More importantly, those bilingual agents were closing 40% more policies per month because they could serve walk-ins that other agencies in the area were turning away.

I made it a growth opportunity instead of a gate.

We started offering paid Spanish classes during work hours and gave bonuses for certification milestones.

Three agents who initially complained the loudest are now our top performers in Virginia because they invested six months learning conversational Spanish.

When your team sees bilingual colleagues getting bigger commission checks and better reviews, resistance turns into enrollment.

Bilingual Bonus Ends Complaints

Orrin Klopper
CEO, Netsurit

I’ve been running Netsurit for nearly 30 years with over 300 employees across three continents, and the policy that creates the most friction?

Personal goal-setting programs–especially when they’re mandatory.

When we launched our Dreams Program, about 40% of our team initially resisted.

They’d say “I don’t want my boss in my personal life” or “my goals are private.”

The pushback came from fear that we’d judge their ambitions or use personal information against them in performance reviews.

What changed everything was making it employee-owned, not management-driven.

We let staff choose their own accountability partners (not their direct managers), and we funded their goals without requiring detailed justifications.

One team member wanted to learn guitar–we paid for lessons, no questions asked. Another wanted to run a marathon–we covered the training program and race fees.

The key was proving through action that this wasn’t a corporate manipulation tactic.

When people saw coworkers actually achieving personal dreams with company support, and zero strings attached, resistance dropped to almost nothing.

Now it’s one of our most valued benefits, but only because we gave up control and made it genuinely about them, not us.

Fund Dreams, Resistance Vanishes

Pleasant Lewis
Owner, Fitness CF

I’ve been running fitness centers in Florida for over 40 years, so I’ve seen my share of policy pushback.

The one that gets the most resistance? Mandatory customer feedback collection after every member interaction.

My front desk staff and trainers initially hated it because they felt like they were being constantly watched and judged.

They’d say “I already know my members are happy, why do we need another survey?”

But when we implemented our Medallia feedback system across Fitness CF locations, we found members were reporting issues staff assumed were fine–like equipment wait times during peak hours or confusing class schedules.

I sat down with the team and showed them real member comments where someone said “I almost cancelled, but then Sarah helped me find morning classes that fit my schedule.”

Suddenly they realized feedback wasn’t about catching mistakes–it was about celebrating wins and spotting problems before members walk out the door.

Our retention jumped because we could fix things in real-time instead of wondering why people didn’t renew.

The key was reframing it from “Big Brother watching” to “here’s proof your work matters.”

When a trainer sees a member specifically mention them in positive feedback, that changes everything.

Now my staff asks members to fill out surveys because they want that recognition.

Feedback Becomes Paycheck Proof

Brooks Humphreys
Founder, 614 HomeBuyers

People complain the most about attendance policies that mess with their flexible schedules.

At least around here. From our time in real estate, we learned that if you give people autonomy with clear expectations, you get fewer problems and they seem more into it.

My advice? Explain why the policy exists, then ask for their input. It almost always leads to a solution everyone can live with.

Flexible Schedules Beat Rigid Attendance Rules

Matthew Runyon
Partner, EMC Remodeling

I run a family roofing and remodeling company in Temple, TX, and honestly, the policy that gets the most pushback isn’t what you’d expect–it’s our mandatory 24-hour response acknowledgment for emergency calls, even on weekends. My guys hated it at first because they felt like they could never fully disconnect.

The real issue was they thought “acknowledgment” meant immediate dispatch.

I fixed the resistance by being crystal clear: acknowledge within an hour, but actual emergency work gets assigned by rotation and severity.

We track it simply–a quick text saying “Got it, evaluating now” counts. Since making that change, our complaint rate dropped to almost zero because the crew realized it’s 30 seconds of their time, not their whole weekend.

What made it stick was showing them our Google reviews. Before the policy, we had angry customers posting about “no one picking up during storms.” After? Our reviews jumped from 4.2 to 4.8 stars in six months, and I tied a quarterly bonus directly to maintaining that rating.

Suddenly everyone was fast on responses because it literally showed up in their paychecks.

The pattern I’ve seen: people resist policies when the “why” feels like it only benefits the company.

Link it to something they personally win from–reputation, tips, bonuses, fewer angry customer interactions–and resistance turns into buy-in fast.

Quick Texts Save Weekend Peace

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The “Feeling Seen” Factor: Why Small Gestures Drive Big Retention

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The "Feeling Seen" Factor: Why Small Gestures Drive Big Retention

What if the quietest employee in the room is the one who feels most invisible, and what if that invisibility is quietly costing you your best talent?

In a world where 79% of people who quit cite “not feeling recognized” as the reason (Gallup), the question isn’t whether recognition matters; it’s whether yours actually lands.

This HR Spotlight pulls back the curtain on the subtle, specific rituals and everyday gestures that make people light up with “someone finally sees me.”

From handwritten cards that outshine gift cards to peer shout-outs that spark contagious energy, from “Mission Moments” that name remote heroes to simple questions that turn burnout into belonging, these leaders prove recognition isn’t about grand gestures; it’s about deliberate moments that say, without words, “your work, your struggle, and you matter here.”

In 2025’s hybrid reality, these are the sparks that turn good teams into unstoppable ones.

Read on!

Brandon Brown
CEO, Search Party

Funny story: when our team grew from just a handful to hundreds, I learned that recognition needed to scale without losing its authenticity.

One ritual that worked was ending big meetings with ‘shout-outs,’ where anyone could thank a teammate for going above and beyond the collective energy that was contagious.

My advice is to keep recognition authentic and diverse, mixing public praise with quiet one-on-one feedback so people feel valued in ways that resonate personally.

Shout-Outs Scale Without Losing Soul

Justin Carpenter
Founder, Jacksonville Maids

For our cleaning teams, feeling valued goes far beyond just paychecksit’s about everyday gestures.

I’ve seen how a handwritten thank-you card after a long weekend on jobs lifted spirits in a way emails never could.
We also set aside five minutes during meetings for peers to recognize each other’s work, which created an uplifting loop of feedback.

If you’re managing hourly or seasonal staff, just remembering to highlight their effort on tough days keeps motivation high.

Handwritten Cards Beat Gift Cards

Sergiy Fitsak
Managing Director, Softjourn

Creating consistent opportunities for connection is essential for making employees feel recognized and valued.

I’ve found that implementing regular virtual coffee chats and designing inclusive meetings that accommodate different time zones shows team members they matter regardless of their location.

Additionally, fostering an environment of open dialogue where everyone is encouraged to share their perspectives demonstrates that each person’s input is valued.

These simple but intentional practices help team members feel seen and appreciated in their daily work experience.

Virtual Coffee Builds Real Bonds

Joe Davies
CEO, FATJOE

After years of leading remote SEO teams, I can tell you consistency in recognition is non-negotiable.

Since we don’t work in the same office, we start each week with a quick virtual stand-up where people call out teammates who made their jobs easier. It creates a culture where peer shoutouts mean more than top-down praise.

For bigger wins, I keep a shared tracker called the “Impact Board” that shows client results tied to specific team contributions.
Seeing your name directly connected to growth makes the work feel more tangible.

My suggestion is to build recognition into daily workflows so feedback feels natural, not forced.

Impact Board Links Names to Wins

Ibrahim Alnabelsi
VP New Ventures, Prezlab

When scaling a team from a handful of people to over a hundred, I noticed employees feel most valued when their ideas make it into leadership discussions.

For instance, if someone suggests an adjustment to our sales flow, I make a point of crediting them in the roadmap presentation.

On the job, I default to highlighting these contributions within strategic sessions because people remember when their voice leads to real change.

Credit Ideas, Watch Voices Soar

Aja Chavez
Executive Director, Mission Prep Healthcare

I’ve learned that recognition doesn’t always have to be formal. It can be as simple as calling out someone’s effort in a huddle.

I’ll put it this way: a quick thank-you during staff check-ins turned our biggest issue of burnout into a non-event.

Once, I spotlighted an admin’s behind-the-scenes scheduling work, and the ripple of appreciation was undeniable.

My suggestion: create a rhythm where small gestures of acknowledgment are just part of everyday culture.

Quick Huddle Thanks Crush Burnout

Piotr Zabula
CEO, Feedink

I’ve found that taking a personal interest in each team member’s specific work and contributions is one of the most effective ways to help employees feel seen.

During my time as an Executive Director, I made it a point to regularly acknowledge individual contributions, especially during periods of uncertainty.

This practice not only helps team members understand the value of their work in the broader context of organizational goals, but also significantly boosts motivation and engagement.

Being genuinely curious about your employees’ projects and recognizing their unique strengths builds the foundation for a culture where people truly feel valued.

Curiosity Makes Everyone Feel Valued

Frank Sturm
CEO, Green Ace Lawn Care

Helping employees feel truly seen comes down to noticing the little things as much as the big wins.

At GreenAce Lawncare, I make it a point to call out specific efforts during our morning check-ins.

If someone goes the extra mile maybe they stayed late to finish a fertilization route or tackled a tricky lawn problem. I mention it by name and explain why it mattered. Even small recognition like that makes a huge difference in morale because it shows their work isn’t just another task it’s valued.

We also do short weekly one on one chats. These aren’t just about performance; they’re about listening.

I remember Carlos, one of our technicians, was struggling with a new mowing route with tough terrain. Talking through it allowed us to adjust his workload and offer support, which made him feel heard and trusted.

These conversations show employees that their opinions and challenges matter, and that they’re part of shaping how we do things.

Simple day to day gestures also go a long way. Walking a property with someone, sharing a quick coffee, or just commenting on the quality of their work can make someone feel noticed.

Jasmine, one of our crew members, once told me she really appreciated when I complimented her careful edging on a difficult lawn it made her feel like her attention to detail was valued. Moments like that quietly build a culture of appreciation.

We also highlight accomplishments publicly. At the end of each month, we call out standout work during team huddles and occasionally post photos of projects with crew credits on our social media.

When clients compliment a specific team member, I make sure they hear it directly.

Recognizing people in front of their peers reinforces their contributions and builds pride in their work.

Morning Call-Outs Lift Entire Crews

Joaquin Calvo
Director, Comligo Spanish

I recommend implementing a weekly recognition ritual during team meetings where you spotlight one employee by sharing a specific example of their exceptional work or how they’ve embodied company values.

At Comligo, we’ve found success with our ‘Mission Moment’ practice during all-hands meetings, where we highlight remote team members by describing concrete examples of their contributions, such as when a teacher went beyond the lesson plan to help a student understand cultural nuances.

This public acknowledgment not only makes the recognized employee feel valued but also reinforces desired behaviors and company values for the entire team.

Mission Moments Spotlight Remote Heroes

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Rebuilding Trust: An HR Leader’s Guide to Post-Layoff Recovery

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Rebuilding Trust: An HR Leader's Guide to Post-Layoff Recovery

When the layoff dust settles, the real crisis often begins—not among those who left, but among those who stayed.

Why do the survivors suddenly feel like the next target?

Why does trust evaporate overnight, and productivity quietly implodes?

This HR Spotlight dares to ask the question most leaders whisper in private: how do you heal a workforce that just watched its friends disappear?

From peer support circles to hormone panels for stress, from “Mission Moments” that re-anchor purpose to ruthless transparency about workload, seasoned HR pros and CEOs reveal the exact moves that turned shell-shocked teams into resilient ones.

Their answers expose a startling truth: post-layoff recovery isn’t about pep talks or pizza parties—it’s about proving, in real time, that the company still sees, values, and fights for the people who remain.

Read on!

Peter Whealy
Chief Elevation Officer, Elevate Potential

HR should no longer be limited to the label “Human Resources.”

It should be the organization’s People & Potential function, the engine that strengthens capability, builds trust, and enables leaders and teams to thrive as the world changes.

Its role is to cultivate the conditions where people can grow, adapt, and perform at their best, especially in moments of uncertainty.

Modern HR is the steward of trust, capability, and organisational coherence.

It helps people see possibility amid ambiguity, builds the connective tissue between teams, and ensures the organisation learns faster than the world around it.

At its best, HR inspires the organisation to Elevate its Potential: strengthening leadership identity, amplifying team capability, and orchestrating systems that unlock enterprise-wide value.

It is the catalyst that keeps the organisation human, even as technology accelerates everything else.

HR Evolves into People & Potential Powerhouse

Alexandru Samoila
Head of Operations, Connect Vending

Layoffs are brutal for everyone involved — the employees who are let go, the ones who remain and the HR or managers who convey the message.

The shift in the culture and environment is almost instantaneous, as people keep second-guessing their performance and doubting their future.

As an operations manager, I have had to deal with such episodes throughout my career, and I have realized that being human, accessible and transparent is what matters the most.

Employees do not expect grand gestures in such situations, but they expect clarity about the future, which can only be brought in through individual and group check-ins, frank conversations and honesty.

I’ve also realized that employees need to hear the truth from senior leaders, so involving them in these conversations is essential to sustain trust.

The more you evade questions or delay, the more likely people are to look for new opportunities, so it’s important to assure your team timely and sincere in addressing their fears.

Transparency and Leadership Build Trust After Layoffs

Christina Imes
Founder, Tru Integrative Wellness

I’ve led teams through multiple restructures–sold a yoga studio, scaled a med spa from one room to multi-million dollars, and merged clinical operations at Tru.

The thing nobody talks about after layoffs is that survivor guilt manifests as physical symptoms.

I watched top performers at Refresh develop insomnia and digestive issues after we had to let people go during COVID, even though their jobs were secure.

HR needs to bring in someone who can address the physiological stress response–not just an EAP flyer.

When I was dealing with public speaking anxiety early in my career, my psychiatrist explained my body was stuck in hyperactive fight-or-flight. The same thing happens to teams post-layoff.

At Tru, we offer hormone panels because chronic stress destroys cortisol patterns and sleep quality, which tanks decision-making for months. Most companies ignore that their remaining employees are operating on broken biology.

The fastest fix I’ve seen: normalize the physical fallout.

In my teams, I explicitly tell people “if you’re sleeping poorly or feel nauseous before work, that’s your nervous system, not weakness–here’s how to address it.”

I’ve connected staff with our functional medicine providers who can run labs and prescribe short-term solutions.

Sounds clinical, but treating the body’s stress response is faster than waiting for therapy appointments that are booked six weeks out.

One concrete thing: offer baseline health screenings (sleep quality, stress biomarkers) within 72 hours of layoffs.

When people see their cortisol is actually lifted or their HRV is tanked, it validates what they’re feeling and gives them something actionable to fix instead of just sitting in dread.

Address Physical Stress Symptoms in Remaining Employees

Tim Johnson
CEO, BIZROK

I’ve led teams through some brutal transitions–military deployments, corporate restructuring, and helping build a startup that went through multiple pivots.

The one thing that consistently helped wasn’t what HR said, but what they actually did in the weeks after.

The most powerful move I’ve seen is creating structured peer support groups.

When I was working with dental practices going through mergers, we’d pair remaining team members with someone from another department for weekly 15-minute check-ins.

Not therapy sessions–just “how are you actually doing” conversations.

The practices that did this saw their productivity bounce back 40% faster than those that didn’t.

HR should also immediately clarify what career growth looks like now.

After layoffs, everyone assumes they’re stuck or next.

I had a practice owner who literally drew out the new org chart with empty boxes and said “here’s what we’re building toward in 6 months.”

Three people who were updating their resumes stayed and competed for those roles instead.

The other piece people miss: let survivors grieve.

One of my clients tried to force a “we’re stronger now” narrative the next day. Total disaster.

Give people 48-72 hours to process before pivoting to the future. Sounds soft, but ignoring it cost them two more voluntary departures within a month.

Peer Support Groups Accelerate Team Recovery

Skandashree Bali
CEO & Co-Founder, Pawland

In moments when employees have witnessed their co-workers being laid off, HR’s role goes far beyond policy and paperwork – it becomes an anchor for emotional safety and clarity.

At Pawland, we’ve learned that uncertainty can be more damaging than the layoff event itself, so HR must focus on compassion, transparency, and continuity of support.

The most effective assistance HR can provide includes:

Communicating the “why” with honesty and empathy
Avoiding vague corporate language helps employees understand the decisions were strategic, not personal – which reduces fear and speculation.

Creating safe spaces for expression
Whether through listening sessions, small-group conversations, or anonymous channels, employees need space to voice their concerns without judgment.

Reassuring the stability of remaining roles
Clear communication around next steps, priorities, and how team contributions are valued helps rebuild psychological security.

Supporting workload realignment, not silent expectation increases
After layoffs, HR can work with managers to redistribute tasks realistically rather than letting burnout compound emotional stress.

Making mental-health resources visible and destigmatized
Employees should know that it’s okay to seek help – and that doing so will not affect how their commitment is perceived.

At Pawland, we believe the defining moment of a company’s culture isn’t during growth – it’s during difficult decisions.

When HR supports people with honesty, respect, and humanity, employees don’t just feel secure – they feel valued.

Emotional Safety and Clarity Anchor Post-Layoff Culture

Hanna Koval
Global Talent Acquisition Specialist & Employment Specialist, Haldren

When layoffs hit, the employees who remain often experience what we call “survivor’s guilt.”

This refers to a mix of relief, anxiety, and uncertainty that can significantly impact morale and productivity.

HR teams have a critical responsibility to address these emotions head-on rather than hoping they’ll fade on their own.

First and foremost, transparency becomes your most valuable tool.

Employees need honest communication about why the layoffs happened and what the path forward looks like.

We’ve seen organizations stumble by going silent after layoffs, which only fuels rumors and erodes trust.

Schedule town halls, send clear written communications, and make leadership accessible for questions.

People can handle difficult truths far better than they can handle ambiguity.

Create safe spaces for employees to process their emotions.

This might mean bringing in counselors, offering expanded EAP services, or simply acknowledging in team meetings that it’s normal to feel unsettled.

When people lose colleagues they’ve worked alongside for years, they’re experiencing a form of grief. Validating those feelings rather than rushing past them shows genuine care.

Your HR team should also focus on workload management.

Remaining employees often worry they’ll be expected to absorb their former colleagues’ responsibilities without additional support or resources.

Have frank conversations about priorities, timelines, and what might need to be temporarily deprioritized. Burnout after layoffs creates a vicious cycle that can lead to more departures.

In our work helping organizations rebuild after transitions, we consistently see that the companies that recover strongest are those that reconnect employees to purpose.

Help your teams understand how their work contributes to stabilizing and growing the company. People need to feel they’re building toward something, not just surviving.

Finally, demonstrate your commitment to those who stayed through meaningful actions, whether that’s professional development opportunities, recognition programs, or involving them in shaping the organization’s next chapter.

Actions will always speak louder than reassuring words alone.

Transparency and Workload Management Rebuild Employee Morale

Susan Snipes
Head of People, Remote People

Generally, HR employees have a wide network, especially on LinkedIn.

They can share their affected co-worker’s resumes, highlight their skills and abilities, and promote them so fellow recruiters and HR leaders can approach them for relevant roles.

HR can also help their affected co-workers with optimizing resumes and show them how to do targeted job search.

HR Networks Help Affected Employees Find Opportunities

Aja Chavez
Executive Director, Mission Prep Healthcare

After our last round of layoffs, we found two things that actually helped people.

We ran workshops on identifying transferable skills, which helped folks get their bearings and see their options.

Peer support groups, especially with a mental health professional there to guide them, gave people a place to talk honestly about their anxieties. It showed people they weren’t alone.

HR should focus on these. They rebuild confidence better than anything else we tried.

Skills Workshops and Support Groups Rebuild Confidence

Aamer Jarg
Director, Talent Shark

Layoffs can make the remaining employees who are still there very upset, and they often feel anxious, guilty, and unsure about their own job security.

HR is important for keeping morale high and repairing trust once something like this happens.

HR should talk about how it affects people emotionally instead of avoiding the subject.

Clear communication from leaders helps people stop guessing and worrying.

Second, providing emotional support through private therapy or employee assistance programs (EAPs) lets employees know that their health and happiness are important.

Third, HR can help small groups talk to each other or have managers check in with employees so they can express their worries and feel more connected.

Finally, reminding employees of the company’s mission and showing them a clear strategy for the future helps them focus on stability and purpose again.

When HR shows empathy and is clear, it can turn uncertainty into renewed interest.

Empathy and Clear Communication Restore Employee Trust

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Justifying Unpaid Internships: HR Pros on Appropriate Situations

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Justifying Unpaid Internships: HR Pros on Appropriate Situations

What if the unpaid internship—long villainized as exploitation—could, in rare, tightly-defined cases, become the single most transformative launchpad for a young career?

In an era where “pay your interns” has become gospel, a provocative minority of leaders dares to ask: are there still moments when the value of pure, unadulterated learning so far outweighs financial compensation that an unpaid role is not just fair—but ethically superior?

This HR Spotlight probes that tension, gathering hard-won perspectives from CEOs and HR veterans who’ve drawn bright lines around when “unpaid” stops meaning “unethical.”

From psychology chartership to martial-arts mentorship, from digital-marketing shadows to nonprofit practicums their answers reveal a surprising truth: when the internship is engineered as pure education—with zero production pressure, explicit learning outcomes, and the student as the undeniable primary beneficiary—unpaid can become unforgettable.

Read on!

John Mac
Founder, OPENBATT

In growth and digital marketing, the only fair case for an unpaid internship is a short, credit-bearing, mentorship-first observership where the student is the clear primary beneficiary.

I’ve set up programs like this for early-career marketers and analysts, and the structure makes all the difference.

The intern shadows real work, learns the tools, and builds a portfolio in a controlled “sandbox,” but nothing they produce is shipped, billed, or tied to revenue.

Think practice briefs, mock campaigns with anonymized data, or a pro bono exercise agreed with a nonprofit.

The learning goals are explicit. A senior mentor meets weekly. The intern owns their portfolio artifacts and gets a detailed reference at the end.

It’s also time-boxed and flexible. Four to six weeks. Ten to fifteen hours a week. Clear start and finish. No on-call work. No production deadlines.

If travel is involved, cover expenses. If the role drifts into real deliverables or measurable outcomes for the business, it becomes a paid role on the spot.

Why this works: the value flows to the student, not the company.

They gain skills, feedback, and proof of work they can show employers. The company gives time and coaching, not extracting labor. It’s honest, teachable, and easy to audit.

My litmus test is simple: would you ship it, attach a KPI to it, or present it to a client? If yes, pay the person.

If no—and the experience is truly educational with strong mentorship and academic credit—an unpaid placement can be appropriate.

One tip for leaders: write the learning outcomes before the internship description.

If you can’t name the tools, decisions, and artifacts the intern will leave with, you’re not offering training—you’re filling a seat.

Mentorship-First Marketing Internships Benefit Students, Not Companies

Ahmad Faiz
Owner, Achilles Roofing & Exteriors

Look, in a trade like roofing, the whole “unpaid internship” thing is a bit of a tricky subject.

We’re not a tech company where someone can get coffee and watch code being written. Our guys are out there swinging hammers, climbing ladders, and lifting heavy material. It’s dangerous, skilled work.

So, the idea of someone doing that for free doesn’t sit right with me. I don’t believe in using free labor for a job that a professional gets paid to do.

However, there is one specific situation where I think an unpaid position can be fair, and that’s for a high school or college student who is doing a required program, like a vocational or construction management class.

It would be a situation where the student is getting academic credit, and the purpose of the time with us is purely educational.

We’d treat them like they’re shadowing, not working.

In this scenario, they’re not doing tear-offs or installations.

They’re spending time with me in the office learning how to bid on a job, seeing how we manage a project from start to finish, and going out to job sites to observe safety protocols and material handling.

They’re learning the business side of the trade, not being used as a worker.

It’s about giving them a real-world look at the industry to help them decide if this is a career they want to pursue. It’s a genuine learning experience that benefits them and doesn’t take work away from our paid crew. That’s the only way I’d ever consider it appropriate.

Roofing Internships Must Teach Business, Not Replace Workers

Arsen Misakyan
CEO & Founder, Angel City Limo

In high-end transportation, the only place an unpaid intern made sense to me was dinner school, and the educational effort was for a high-level skill of making dinner, and not a benefit of free labor.

We have, for example, instituted two-week “shadow programs” at Angel City Limo, where students who think they might like to learn event logistics get to shadow coordinators on site and ride shotgun on planning calls, as well as be trained in scheduling software — no grunt work, just immersion.

The fact is, there is a real educational value, and one day it ends.

Our interns walked away with a portfolio piece — a pretend transportation plan for an actual event — and often landed paid work in hospitality or logistics down the line.

They gave it because it was short, and it was from mentors, so no one felt exploited. Many of them, as they exited, came back as paid seasonal staff.

I’d recommend that other companies be transparent about what they are trying to do going forward.

If it adds value to the business’s bottom line or an external customer, then it should pay well.

But if the goal is to give students industry experience and connections on an accelerated time frame, unpaid internships can make sense — so long as learning, not labor, remains the focus.

Transportation Shadows Learn Skills, Not Provide Labor

Tony Ragan
President, Absolute Pest Management

One situation where I believe offering an unpaid internship is fair is when the opportunity is structured as a true learning experience and not just free labor.

Early in my career, I agreed to mentor a young intern who wanted to break into private equity but had no prior exposure to the industry.

We were upfront that the internship was unpaid, but in exchange, I made sure he shadowed me in meetings, sat in on real deal negotiations, and received one-on-one coaching about financial modeling and relationship building.

He wasn’t filing paperwork or running errands; he was being trained in skills that would have cost thousands of dollars in a classroom.

That experience stuck with me because the intern later told me the three months he spent with us carried more weight than his college coursework when he landed his first analyst role.

For me, fairness lies in transparency and value exchange.

If the company is honest about the unpaid nature of the role and committed to giving meaningful exposure, mentorship, and real-world experience, then an unpaid internship can be appropriate.

But it only works if the intern leaves with tangible skills and connections that move their career forward.

Private Equity Mentorship Outweighs Classroom Education

Samantha Stuart
Co-Founder, Magic City Pest Control

When I worked at a nonprofit early in my career, we offered an unpaid internship for graduate students in HR management who specifically needed practicum hours to complete their degree.

The arrangement was clear from the start: the role was structured around learning outcomes, not production needs.

Interns weren’t expected to replace staff or carry the workload of a paid employee; instead, they shadowed, observed, and applied classroom concepts in a real-world setting.

For many of them, it was a direct bridge to finishing their program, and the experience itself held tangible academic value.

Nonprofit Practicums Serve Learning Outcomes, Not Production

Ben Schwencke
Chief Psychologist, Test Partnership

In occupational psychology, there is a formal chartership process that requires experience in several distinct areas.

Training and development, selection and assessment, leadership, workforce planning etc.

Naturally, finding experience in all of these domains can be challenging, and showing evidence of experience can be even harder.

Unpaid internships make sense in this area, as they grant trainees the opportunity to acquire experience in these chartership domains, without needing to commit to full-time permanent employment.

Trainees could undertake an internship within an HR department, or as part of a consultancy, or alongside a psychometric test provider, granting them valuable experience which can be used as evidence of experience.

Moreover, these internships will provide contacts, references, and professional connections which help trainees to progress through the chartership process more generally.

For these trainees, the goal is very much to gain relevant experience, it isn’t to earn a salary.

Indeed, they may already have an employer who is supportive of their chartership journey, and would grant them leave to gain relevant experience elsewhere.

Yes, paid internships would naturally be more desirable, but unpaid internships represent a great way of acquiring professional experience which can aid the chartership process that would otherwise not be available.

Psychology Chartership Requires Experience Over Payment

Christopher Pappas
Founder, eLearning Industry Inc

Unpaid internships can be fair when they are transparent and focused purely on developing themselves.

A good example is inviting an intern to join a two week sprint where they observe how content marketing in digital learning is planned and delivered.

During this time they shadow professionals, join brainstorming sessions and practice creating smaller assets that mentors later review. Each step is built to provide exposure without placing the weight of company operations on the intern.

Fairness comes from intent. The experience is structured around growth rather than cost savings.

The value becomes clear when a company treats it as an investment in future talent.

The exchange is balanced if the intern finishes with a stronger sense of their skills and career direction.

Even without pay both sides gain something meaningful and the learning experience becomes worthwhile.

Digital Marketing Shadows Gain Skills Through Observation

Daria Turanska
Legal Manager, Faster Draft

In the legal-tech industry, offering an unpaid internship can be considered fair only in highly specific situations—such as a short-term, skill-building internship tied directly to an academic program, where the intern receives academic credit and the experience is structured purely for learning, not labor.

For example, a 3-week internship for law students where they shadow contract automation workflows, attend mock client calls, and get exposure to legal document lifecycles—without performing billable work or replacing an employee role—can be appropriate if it’s transparent, optional, and provides real educational value.

Even then, it must comply with labor laws (e.g., the U.S. Department of Labor’s seven-point test), and we lean toward paid opportunities whenever possible.

In our industry, fairness starts with respecting the boundary between learning and exploitation.

Legal-Tech Shadows Learn Systems Without Replacing StaffOwn Mistakes First, Win Trust

Alim Sheykhislyamov
Owner & Judo Coach, Challenge Sports Club Inc. 

As the owner of Challenge Sports Club Inc., I’ve observed that the landscape of internships has evolved, making the conversation around unpaid positions increasingly nuanced.

In the realm of martial arts, particularly in settings like ours where character development is as valued as technical skills, offering an unpaid internship can indeed be fair and appropriate, especially when it comes to providing opportunities for students aspiring to careers in coaching, sport management, or youth development.

Consider a situation where a university student majoring in physical education or kinesiology seeks hands-on experience within a judo environment.

An unpaid internship could allow them to immerse themselves in our training programs, assist qualified coaches, support children in their classes, and understand the intricacies of running a martial arts school.

This experience not only provides valuable insights into coaching and mentorship but also helps them develop essential interpersonal skills-skills that extend far beyond the mat.

Here at Challenge Sports Club, we welcome aspiring interns to help with tasks like organizing seasonal camps or leading warm-ups under supervision.

These roles can serve as practical learning experiences, cultivating a sense of responsibility while fostering their passion for the sport.

Unpaid internships become more about personal growth and professional development, bridging the gap between theoretical knowledge and practical application.

However, it’s essential to note that the perceived fairness of these internships relies heavily on the structure and support we provide.

A well-defined internship program with clear expectations, mentorship, and opportunities for skill development ensures that interns gain experience that genuinely prepares them for future employment, whether that involves taking on paid positions in coaching or exploring other pathways in related fields.

Ultimately, as a coaching community, fostering a supportive learning environment for interns reflects our commitment to character development-a core principle of judo that transcends sport, building leaders who will not only excel on the mat but also in their future professional endeavors.

Martial Arts Internships Build Character Beyond The Mat

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